dugan978 Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 (edited) Recently this summer I gave up the oppurunity to date this beautiful girl who was all about me and over me. She's a 10 on the scale and is just all around an amazing person. Her and I both were in cheating lieing relationships. We hungout basically all spring and she was always helping me so stuff around my house and offering to do stuff. But then came along this girl I dated a few years ago who had a bad past but I thought had changed. One thing lead to another and we ended up dating this summer again. But in the midst of it I left this great girl who was all about me in dust. We still did hangout and stuff but not like before. All my friends told me what are you thinking she's the one she's the one. They all said she really liked me. We'll just recently she got back With her lieing cheating boyfriend and me and this girl didn't work out. Now I'm curising myself. I did talk to her and apologize and she said her dad asks about me all the time and that she agreed that we should have dated. She also said her and this guy are drifting apart. Just this weeekend she wanted me to go to a concert with her and her other friends. I wanted to go but I had already made plans and I didn't want to do that while she's still with her boyfriend. Basically my question is how can I make things right and get back to where things used to be with her. I don't want to let this girl go by and not try. It does seem like she's still interested. Just looking for some advice. Edited August 28, 2017 by dugan978
coolheadal Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 Recently this summer I gave up the oppurunity to date this beautiful girl who was all about me and over me. She's a 10 on the scale and is just all around an amazing person. Her and I both were in cheating lieing relationships. We hungout basically all spr Why would you date someone like your doing cheating and lying? Or were you in both cheating and lying relationships? Sounds like to me you didn't have enough confidence/self-esteem to ask her out. You kept her in the friends-zone. I have woman like that also in tow. But she clearly tells me we are just very special best friends. With her I can have some real fun times and she pays for her meals or I pay for her drinks and she pays for our meals. We can talk dirty about body parts, and arm wrestle, both arm push back each other to see who's the strongest.. She's very sexy hot Colombian woman and she's younger than me. I still think of her as friend she would get 8.5 on the scale. We even taken a selfie together we really look happy and good! After the meal we stood around longer and have fun talking about things. I think everyone should have experience like that. She contacted me and wanted to see me. I got dress quick and drove off! She was waiting for me in front of her brother's house. I was out with her the whole afternoon into the night we even played domino's ..
GemmaUK Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 Don't cheat. But you can meet or talk just the once and tell her that if she is still up for meeting up if she chooses to leave her RS then you've realised that you absolutely messed up by dating your ex and it made you realise that going for the safer option (someone you already dated) was easier than the potential of a new relationship and that it was time to man up and tell her how you feel about her and would like to give things a go. Be sincere, tell the truth but you then have to leave the ball in her court. She isn't happy in the RS she is in but it also depends how much she actually likes you and also whether she can feel she can trust you and for that you have to give her time and space to think. For the record, I believe you have a possible second shot but if you do you must make your feelings clearer - she did the first time around by her actions - you have some making up to do but also you have to extend her some respect so tell her then give her space and time and give yourself a decent time limit but in the meantime don't date around. If she actually meant that much then you wouldn't want to anyway.
Author dugan978 Posted August 28, 2017 Author Posted August 28, 2017 What I meant was that we were both in relationships where are partners cheated. And she is back in the same relationship again. I am going to have a sincere talk with her.
Author dugan978 Posted August 28, 2017 Author Posted August 28, 2017 Mind you also when she found out me and the girl broke up she offered to go help me get my few things from her. In my opinion if she's willing to help me get my things from my ex she's somewhat interested.
BaileyB Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 I'm not sure what you are thinking... It's hard to even follow the story with all the cheating and lying partners... Don't date this girl if she has a boyfriend. And, I would suggest that you all need to develop some maturity before you start dating... 'cause this is a mess.
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