pain for being used as a rebound?

[mikesabdo]

Hello everyone i dated this girl for 6 months she was miserable, bad life , deep depression and i was there for whenever she needs me

 

she was a good person at first of the 2 months and then she started treating me like crap ( i know its all my fault )

i trusted her and treated her like princess

 

Just figured out she didn't love me for a sec ( too late ) its been 4 months since the breakup im not missing her im just feeling so much pain because how stupid i was for trusting her

 

she is over her ex now and im the one who is left broken now and im the same place she were and even worse after being used and giving my best to her

 

i don't miss this girl and i hate her for making fool of me and using me as a crutch to get over her ex how can i stop this pain ? she was cheating on me the whole relationship

[BrewCrew25]

Just remember that you are only hurting yourself by remaining angry and upset at her.

 

 

Instead of staying angry, try to see her side of everything. Six months isn't a whole lot of time to get to know someone, she's got a lot going on her in life you know nothing about. Does that mean what she did to you was okay or that you don't have a right to feel how you feel? No. But understanding her, even just understanding that there's a lot of stuff you don't know, opens the door to forgiveness. And once you can forgive her, the anger and pain you're feeling will start to dissipate.

[Sweetfish]

Hello everyone i dated this girl for 6 months she was miserable, bad life , deep depression and i was there for whenever she needs me

 

she was a good person at first of the 2 months and then she started treating me like crap ( i know its all my fault )

i trusted her and treated her like princess

 

Just figured out she didn't love me for a sec ( too late ) its been 4 months since the breakup im not missing her im just feeling so much pain because how stupid i was for trusting her

 

she is over her ex now and im the one who is left broken now and im the same place she were and even worse after being used and giving my best to her

 

i don't miss this girl and i hate her for making fool of me and using me as a crutch to get over her ex how can i stop this pain ? she was cheating on me the whole relationship

 

Why do guys do this? When a woman is treating you like crap she is testing you to see if you will let her get away with stepping all over you.

[gpete3008]

Holy smokes dude. I guess it's a good thing things didn't work out between the two of you. You sound like a good man, and I am sure those good qualities you displayed for her were not wasted. Hopefully, some of that rubbed off on her. You never know...your six months with her may have displayed for her a little bit of salt and light in her tasteless and dark world. If so, then they will help her become a better person. Hang in there. Your princess is waiting for you, and there's no doubt you'll find her.