iphone_user1 Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 I was going out with a girl, 8 dates, had sex twice. After the second time I lost all interest. I thaught I wanted more than just casual, but I guessed wrong. How do I tell her without hurting her?
Gr8fuln2020 Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 You tell her, but it won't be w/o repercussions. 1
Dis Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 Kindly and clearly Afterwards please dont call her up for a booty call weeks later Just let her know gently and be done 3
ExpatInItaly Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 You won't be able to avoid hurting her, unless she feels the same way you do. Be gentle but firm - don't give her false hope for the future. 3
coolheadal Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 I was going out with a girl, 8 dates, had sex twice. After the second time I lost all interest. I thaught I wanted more than just casual, but I guessed wrong. How do I tell her without hurting her? It happens! I rather not get into a situation like what you have to do now. 1. Ghost Her 2. Block Her 3. Tell her off 4. Say sorry I am not interested in you any longer 5. We're done 6. Get the hell out of my car/house/pool/bed/etc.. 7. Not working 8. I don't like you 9. You disgust me leave now.. 0. GO AWAY!
BaileyB Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 I was going out with a girl, 8 dates, had sex twice. After the second time I lost all interest. I thaught I wanted more than just casual, but I guessed wrong. How do I tell her without hurting her? You can't really tell her without hurting her... Sorry.
stillafool Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 Just be honest and tell her that you like her but are not ready for a relationship at this point. Then leave her alone.
toomanyquestions123 Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 Just friendzone her in an indirect way, stop asking her for dates and stop initiating the convos with her, she will definitely ask you what is going on, then you will explain that its not about her its about you lol and then DISAPPEAR
Author iphone_user1 Posted August 28, 2017 Author Posted August 28, 2017 Thanks for your answers. It's always the same, I'm the one who always lose interest I don't know why
kendahke Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 Thanks for your answers. It's always the same, I'm the one who always lose interest I don't know why might want to talk to a professional if it keeps getting in the way of you being in a relationship. 1
mortensorchid Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 So you just wanted casual and so did she, but now you want an actual relationship and not with her? Is that the thought process here?
coolheadal Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 Thanks for your answers. It's always the same, I'm the one who always lose interest I don't know why Your picking the wrong type of women to go out with. Go with woman you wouldn't think twice about dating and having sex with. That's what you have to do.
smackie9 Posted August 28, 2017 Posted August 28, 2017 Thanks for your answers. It's always the same, I'm the one who always lose interest I don't know why This is why we date....to find out if they are relationship material. Obviously there wasn't enough chemistry, sex was ok at best, didn't feel a connection. I think after 8 dates it's more than reasonable to figure out if you are into them for the long haul. It's only takes one to be the one right? You just haven't met her yet.
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