Kelly08 Posted August 27, 2017 Posted August 27, 2017 Update and additional question regarding this post: I asked for break up but then came back after two hours now he needs time think I reflected over this week's events and how I haven't appreciated him this week, asked him for a meeting and once met explained him how I got scared he was going to break up, how my mind was making up stories out of stress and how I forgot to pay attention on the changes I'm making in my diet and life are affecting him. We both realized how much we misunderstood each other that night mostly I kept reading his actions wrong. Promised to be more attentive from now on, and if I ever have questions regarding us I will ask him first instead of making assumptions. Told him just needed to tell that in person and am ready to wait as long as he needs to think. After I heard him out as well he forgave me, we had great couple hours, and are back together. But I can see a change in his responses to my texts, now provided he already told me he is still mad at me. He doesn't respond to messages as he used to My question is should I keep texting him every day morning and evening with small messages to say have a good day, or how was your day, or give him some time and not text as often? I just want to show him that I will work every day on us and never take him for granted again. Thank you!
Reddice Posted August 27, 2017 Posted August 27, 2017 I'd say, just talk about your feelings with him. Tell him it makes you feel insecure at times if he acts as certain way. If you don't hear the reason from him, everything else will be speculation. This is not a time to speculate and play games, but to work on any trust issues that might be left unattended otherwise. 1
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