josephmakez Posted August 26, 2017 Posted August 26, 2017 Hello ... i dated this girl for 4 months and it was the most toxic relationship i ever had ... we had many sex during this time and the last one was pretty bad because i was really nervous and ended up me not lasting long The problem is she hates me and dumped me telling me that im not a man Im not bad at bed i was nervous and this only happened 2 times from maybe hundreds of times ... things went really bad and she started spreading rumors about me to everyone telling them she dumped because i was bad at bed and i can't satisfy her tl:dr: i guess this girl ruined my life saying rumors about me ( i know myself well ) which led to alot of embarrassment and many girls started to avoid getting in a relationship with me because of this ...to be honest this was the worst thing ever happened for me and i never felt the pain that i have been through for 6 months any advice would be appreciated Thanks
carhill Posted August 26, 2017 Posted August 26, 2017 Once you accept that people have free will and are largely irrelevant, life gets better. Anyone can start up rumors at any time for any reason or no reason at all. Long life, decide what's important to you and let the rest go. Look at it this way, all she's got is a big mouth and bad shoes 2
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted August 26, 2017 Posted August 26, 2017 Hello ... i dated this girl for 4 months and it was the most toxic relationship i ever had ... we had many sex during this time and the last one was pretty bad because i was really nervous and ended up me not lasting long The problem is she hates me and dumped me telling me that im not a man Im not bad at bed i was nervous and this only happened 2 times from maybe hundreds of times ... things went really bad and she started spreading rumors about me to everyone telling them she dumped because i was bad at bed and i can't satisfy her tl:dr: i guess this girl ruined my life saying rumors about me ( i know myself well ) which led to alot of embarrassment and many girls started to avoid getting in a relationship with me because of this ...to be honest this was the worst thing ever happened for me and i never felt the pain that i have been through for 6 months any advice would be appreciated Thanks How old are you, Joseph? 1
Author josephmakez Posted August 26, 2017 Author Posted August 26, 2017 How old are you, Joseph? im 23 and im not acting childish we are in the same school and im getting really bad responses from people
carhill Posted August 26, 2017 Posted August 26, 2017 If you're not being materially damaged, like your educational or professional status being affected, consider it tuition at the university of life. If you think it's bad now, wait until you get out in the meat grinder of the work force and, horrors, get married
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted August 26, 2017 Posted August 26, 2017 im 23 and im not acting childish we are in the same school and im getting really bad responses from people Well, she was a big fat jerk for doing that. Very, very immature. There isn't much you can do now except be the bigger person and expand your social circle beyond people with her in it. It will take time, but as you meet new people, make other friends who don't know her, the ugly rumors will start to fade. Really all it takes is one girl to be like, "screw her, I'm gonna see for myself." Honestly, anyone who would believe the word of your ex is dumb, just because she is your EX. With time, it will fade.
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