guild11 Posted August 25, 2017 Posted August 25, 2017 Hello, me (27) and my ex GF (28) broke up about 3 month ago after 2 years, we still work in the same office and recently she was promoted to department manager, she is my direct boss now and has a new boyfriend. We were pretty hostile at first but then we came to conclusion that it's better that we respect each other and talk so the work environment would be easier and less stressful for both of us. This week I had a 5 day trip with my friends, on the first day she messaged me telling me to take care and have fun. Day after she messaged me again asking how things are going, later on she sent some of her photos and asked for video call. I still love her so I was kinda happy that we are talking until she started asking if I was with other women, I said I was and she turned a bit cold on me but kept messaging. The trip was over and I got home, in the evening she called me and I haven't answered, she messaged me and asked to come over (her BF went out of country) I told her it's a bad idea and I might do things lol so I rather meet her at the office. She said she misses me and wants us to talk/smoke weed. I went to her place, she hugged me and didn't let go at first, we talked and smoked and I couldn't resist anymore. I just grabbed her and kissed her, she said it's wrong... But the night took its course and we had sex eventually. We both enjoyed it very much but she was in emotional storm, she said she can't believe she cheated on her boyfriend, that she won't be able to look at his face and got upset. I told her my honest opinion I said that if she really loved that guy we wouldn't be having sex right now, then I said that she probably gonna dump him later on and would ask to be with me again, she denied it said it won't happen. We talked a bit more and I left her place, she didn't messaged me day after, I didn't felt with the things I done. What do you think will happen now ?
PegNosePete Posted August 25, 2017 Posted August 25, 2017 What do you think will happen now ? Her boyfriend will find out, she will tell you she doesn't want to see you ever again, and you'll get fired. 2
dumbass2 Posted August 25, 2017 Posted August 25, 2017 I'm assuming this is a job that you really don't need or care much about? If it was, you'd be more focused on that and not banging your ex.... now direct boss. Sticky situation where I don't see you working there much longer, unless you are able to transfer to another dept. As for a relationship with her? She just cheated on her new boyfriend. You think she'd come back to you and be faithful? You two are done or should be done. You should start thinking about your job and remove yourself from this mess.
Been Posted August 26, 2017 Posted August 26, 2017 I think she's playing the victim and used you for an excuse to get out of her relationship. She was texting YOU and was telling you how she missed you. She brought her ex over to her place which I'm positive her current boyfriend knew nothing about. She had consensual sex and now its a problem?
Author guild11 Posted August 26, 2017 Author Posted August 26, 2017 I think she's playing the victim and used you for an excuse to get out of her relationship. She was texting YOU and was telling you how she missed you. She brought her ex over to her place which I'm positive her current boyfriend knew nothing about. She had consensual sex and now its a problem? No she didn't used me, she is not that kind of a person. At first I wanted to get her in the bed just to make a point and prove something stupid. I had days that I wasn't thinking about her and I thought that I am done with her. We had sex and all the feelings are back and even stronger. She did called me again day after and we had sex again, I would drop my pride and honestly want her back. Even when she said she misses her boyfriend and that she has feelings for him which killed me inside a bit. She is my boss but she doesn't have any power to move me, I'll have to do something extremely stupid at work for her to have a valid option to fire me but it's really irrelevant. I'm kinda addicted to her.
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