Pkami Posted August 25, 2017 Posted August 25, 2017 (edited) I love my ex girlfriend. She told me she still "loves" me. But she had chosen someone else over me. She hurt me more than I've ever been hurt in my entire life. It's been a couple months and I'm still struggling in my mind to let go of her. I miss her so much it hurts my soul. I miss everything about her, despite what's she's done to me. I want to stop feeling the pain. I want to stop caring about her. I need advice and counsel on how to look toward the future. Will I find someone better? Will I find what I had with her with someone else? It's really hard to convince myself that what I found so easily with her won't be found again. Edited August 25, 2017 by Pkami
Maldives Posted August 25, 2017 Posted August 25, 2017 I love my ex girlfriend. She told me she still "loves" me. But she had chosen someone else over me. She hurt me more than I've ever been hurt in my entire life. It's been a couple months and I'm still struggling in my mind to let go of her. I miss her so much it hurts my soul. I miss everything about her, despite what's she's done to me. I want to stop feeling the pain. I want to stop caring about her. I need advice and counsel on how to look toward the future. Will I find someone better? Will I find what I had with her with someone else? It's really hard to convince myself that what I found so easily with her won't be found again. He dude 1stly I feel ur pain same same here well a yr in now and still hard at times. To answer your question it is it takes time to heal. The best way is to not block the feelings and more so feel the feeling cry wen u feel it coming on it all helps release this person from ur life. It can feel like I'll never meet anyone ever again but u will wen ur hearts ready again. If ur anything like me the older u get the more gun shy u get especially if I've had ur heart ripped out I've had that pain now 5 times and I'm at that point where I just don't trust woman anymore I don't want it it be like this but it's been the experiences I've had that have shaped my reality to this. I would highly recommend counselling it helps process the break up better and defiantly no contact wth her
whatnot Posted August 25, 2017 Posted August 25, 2017 If you miss everything about her....you didn't know her very well. (but I think I know what you mean and how you're feeling). Time doesn't heal all wounds. But it will yours. Time is your friend. 1
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