sdfg Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Have been married for 6 years w/ 2 kids. Marriage began falling apart about 3 years ago when I realized that must of the things I knew about my husband where lies. These things were little things but were the things that made me fell in love with with him. I started to feel like I married a stranger but I learned to accept these things. the lieing never really stopped even though he sd he would. My husband has a sarcastic sense of humor tht can be very hurtful and offend people including me. I have asked several times for him to go to marriage counceling with me but he refuses to go everytime. I have went to counceling several times by myself and have learned to a great deal about this marriage and gain alot of self-esteem. About 4 weeks ago I told my husband I wanted a divorce and it took him 2 weeks to finally figure out I was serious. Now he finally wants to try but im tired of waiting. He is hurt believes i gave up on him to easily. I dont feel as though he is going to change and im tired of sitting around waiting! Please should I stay or go?
jerry59 Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 >Please should I stay or go? if you have any hope, or any love for him, now is the time to get to MC. good luck.
Mr.positive Posted August 20, 2005 Posted August 20, 2005 I agree If you love him give him a chance if what he did wasn't to bad. But don't stay with him if it's just for the kids because that wont help anaything. I wish the best of luck.
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