guestman Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 hi, ive posted the same problem b4, but as time went on, i have realized a new problem..so ill jsut make this as short as i can. yea.. i finally had the courage to ask a close friend of mine after 5 years of telling myself she'd turn me down. So then she says yes to this date. To be more specific she said the words "yes, i would like to out on a date with you". So as I almost freaked out at that moment(this would be my very first date ever and it would be with a girl i longed for for a long time) i realized that it was a little too good to be true. And so it was, she then later told me that she considered bringing along afirned for it may be really awkward. I, who could never say no to her, said the words "only if i can bring a friend". So that leaves me questioning if she wants to go. So today i remembered that i forgot to ask her when where and on wut time. So i asked her where yesterday and she said to meet her and her friend up at a mall or sumthing. I've talked to my friends about this and they said that this is very.. unusual. Now today i have to ask her wut time shud i go, and now it seems like im asking all the questions, like she isnt even trying. So that leaves me to conclude she doesnt really want to go. I mean, if she didnt want to go, why didnt she just say no in the first place. Was she just trying to be nice and spare my feelings? cuz if she was, then she is doing exactly the opposite. I mean after 5 years of friendship she would just play games like this (as my friend put it)? So yea, wut do u guys think, shud i cancel or wut? yea.. thx for ur time
Lilyann Posted August 12, 2005 Posted August 12, 2005 She could just be scared and taking someone with her could just be an ice breaker.
iamwalrus Posted August 12, 2005 Posted August 12, 2005 "my friends said this is very awkward" don't listen to other guys (unless they are intellegent) about girl problems. all my friends do is make fun of me when i try and use logic about girls (speaking of which i'm gonna make another post in this forum) anyway, yea, girls are weird. i don't know about the mall thing. but she said she wanted to go n a date with you correct? how close are you to this girl?
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