Hippiehappychick Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 months. He told me today that he is bored wth me, or at least thinks he is. I tried kissing him while we were watching a movie, and he didn't seem to react. He sat there motionless. Then when we were kissing he had his eyes open and was watching TV. He then said that we don't talk enough, and that we have been having too much sex. We mostly see each other on Mon/Wed/Fri and everytime we see each other we have sex. Then when I asked him since when he felt this way, he said about a week ago. He made it seem like he He told me that after a certain time, couples loose the special "passion." And maybe that is what is happening to us. Is this possible? And how can I be certain that he is or is not bored with me? Maggie
LucreziaBorgia Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 He's been with you long enough for the initial infatuation to wear off, and when he got to know you and not the idealized version of you he had been pursuing he realized he didn't want to take it any further with you. There is not much you can do in a situation like that but to walk away.
clynn Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 maybe try hanging out and doing other things, rather than just staying home and watching movies and getting busy. You need to connect on other levels and in new environments as well if it is going to work.
clynn Posted August 12, 2005 Posted August 12, 2005 Originally posted by Star Gazer A guy who gets bored this easily and quickly, in my opinion, is never going to be happy in a long term relationship, because he expects the emotional highs generated by a new, fresh, exciting relationship to last indefinately. Good point. Or maybe don't be available to him, spend less time with him, I guess.
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