ironpony Posted August 20, 2017 Posted August 20, 2017 Basically I went out with this woman twice and we hooked up on a second date. Not go all the way, but did other things. However, she started acting awkward as we got more into it, and was just acting really awkward afterwards. I left and sent her a text the next day, asking her if I weirded her out last night, and she said 'mm yeah', in per response. I like her and think she is really cool but what should my response back be to recover from this if I want to keep seeing her and with the aim of continuing?
elaine567 Posted August 20, 2017 Posted August 20, 2017 Well you have to talk to her about what "weirded her out"? What do you think it could be?
Miss Spider Posted August 20, 2017 Posted August 20, 2017 Yikes. Ask her what weirded her out, if only for future knowledge 1
Author ironpony Posted August 20, 2017 Author Posted August 20, 2017 She said I was acting awkward around her, which made her feel more awkward. Mainly she wasn't very kissy or cuddly at all, and all she wanted to do was me to eat her out only, and would keep pushing my head down, and not want to do anything else. She didn't want to kiss and avoided it and just wanted that one thing only. So that made me feel very awkward. Don't get me wrong I liked pleasing her, but I felt awkward in the sense that she was being very nonreciprocating, which I am not use to. So that was why I was feeling awkward about it, which made me act a way that weirded her out I guess. But even if she is all about me doing that one thing at first, that's fine at first, and I think she has a cool personality so far and want to continue. So if this was the cause of me acting weird around her, how should I bring it up, or should I?
Miss Spider Posted August 20, 2017 Posted August 20, 2017 Uh, op, I don't know, because she sounds like the awkward and weird one. It's hard to predict how she'll react to anything 1
Miss Spider Posted August 20, 2017 Posted August 20, 2017 It's possible she if not that into to you and was only after one thing, so to speak.
Author ironpony Posted August 20, 2017 Author Posted August 20, 2017 Okay thanks. Well she wanted to hang out and still do other things other than the one thing, so it didn't seem that way for me. However, assuming that she is looking for more than one thing, what should my next response to recover and get her past the weirded out moment?
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