Naomi32 Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 So what does it mean when a guy picks you out of a crowd of people for 3 weeks staright to help him with setting up for a school activity (he's very territorial, he never asks anyone for help and the truth is he doesn't really need it either)? Than after 3 weeks of this on the 4th week, he didn't ask me and avoided me like the plague. Nothing happened out of the ordinary on the 3rd week. It seemed he really enjoyed my company and was comfortable around me. So he doesn't even look at me for another 3 weeks after that and than all of a sudden, as if nothing happened, he waved at me to come help him. I just looked at him and shook my head no and turned away b/c I was so hurt. Did I do the right thing? What is going on in his brain? BTW, we haven't spoken since and he hasn't approached me. We are kind of staying away from each other. Can anyone decipher this?
country gal Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 well, what jumps out at me is that, unless i'm reading this wrong, he had 3 weeks of close contact with you and never asked you out .... that makes me think you did the right thing. i would find someone else to invest your energy in.
Marshbear1 Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 It suggests that he uses you when he want s but doesn't want to be bothered otherwise. You seem to like him so I would just keep it as a business relationship and not get your feelings involved. He doesn't sound interested.
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