Tried to play it cool, buuut...

[act00]

You said you'd been waiting for a text for a few days when she texted you to come over. So you basically didn't communicate with her at all, waiting for "her turn?" You wait a few days to contact her again after your initial sorry text. A few days. Sorry, that's ignoring. You lose momentum if you go cold like that, and you certainly aren't demonstrating any level of interest. We all have different ideas on communication, too much, too little, to desperate, too aloof, so the communication can be a difficult minefield, but waiting for days in this little cat and mouse game can kill the momentum. She expressed interest in spending time with you, with bad timing, but it says something that she wanted you to come to her friend's house and hang out, so I suggest you quit playing this communication game and just reach out and say again, you're sorry you missed the text and you wish you would have seen it and come over. You would like to see her. You work through the weekend, but would she like to get together in the morning for coffee or sometime during the week?

 

"Playing it cool" can come off as uninterested and unavailable, and like I said, in a new relationship, there can be loss of momentum if you're playing hard to get and ignoring for days. It's kind of a slippery slope, but put in some effort.

[iseestars]

The next morning I did let her know I was sorry I missed her text. And I really appreciate you insight, thanks.

[d0nnivain]

have you heard from her yet?

[preraph]

I don't know why you'd apologize for missing a text at 1:30 a.m.

[d0nnivain]

I don't know why you'd apologize for missing a text at 1:30 a.m.

 

So that she knows that had he gotten the text when she sent it, he would have been up for the booty call she was seeking.

 

C'mon preraph

[iseestars]

No haven't heward from her, but I am for sure going to the next thing she will be at. Or I think she will be. And now I'm hearin that we was/are talking, so Idk what she is telling her friends.