snoopdawg Posted August 10, 2005 Posted August 10, 2005 Hi guys, Its been a couple of years since my last post and I guess I'm here again in a similar position as before. I've been dumped again! Just after my last relationship failure I met a wonderful woman. We have been together for the last 2 years and she lived with me for the last year. We did everything together and rarely had arguments - all seemed well and I was sure she was the one. Rewind back a month ago - she told me that her feelings had changed and she was leaving me. SHe wrote me a letter to elaborate on this ; she thought that we had nothing in common and we had lost the spark in our relationship. Things have been a bit different since her ex boyfriend died in March. I think this is detrimental to her decision really and she said she needed time. We have met up a few times since and no bad blood. I'm going to a party on Saturday and I'm pretty sure she will be there. I will have to be strong. Should I feel punished for the horrible thing that happend to her ex ?? I do. What can I do ?
FWIW Posted August 10, 2005 Posted August 10, 2005 All you can do is stay as positive as you can, and wait - if you want her back. Let every bit of contact she has with you be positive, let her see you in your best light possible. Maybe she'll realise what's she might lose. Any time you're in any way negative with her it will push her away. Make her want you. But if you're getting nowhere after a while, give it up as she's already made a tough decision to break your heart and would rather stick to it. It happens to us all mate, you're not alone and you'll get by. But stay as upbeat as you can - it may even help you find someone who really WILL appreciate you. Good luck!
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