karlym3 Posted August 10, 2005 Posted August 10, 2005 the boy I'm into I sent him a text on his work pager with my number tonight(We just met friday night out partying) I said this is your friend from the ___ dept. I barely have any friends who live near us(we live 3 blocks away) Call me sometime if you want to hang out at the pool or beach. I am not even sure if he likes me even-when he sees me he smiles big and he is very friendly...but he always talks for about 2 minutes then runs..wouldn't he stay and keep talking? I do not know if he is shy or uninterested. (although friday we talked alot) SO when I see him at work tom morning---should I be embaressed after sending that message(I did not know I would be seeing him in the morning).. If he is interested when do you think he would call by.. I mean the weekend is coming up..though I made the text sound like I was just looking for a friendship(I had to I do not know if this guy has a g-friend or is not interested). What do you think?
Author karlym3 Posted August 10, 2005 Author Posted August 10, 2005 well--to my suprise!! he came by work to check on some paper work and as I was walking towards my office I walked by him! I was like oh did you get my text and he was like yea i got it and smiled and then I was like what are you doing here!? and he said oh just checking on things.. and then he kind of kept walking (there was people around of..kind of) towards his office...he did not really address it at all... hmmm starting to think NOT INTERESTED!! but at least the worst part is over!
Saidar Posted August 10, 2005 Posted August 10, 2005 Hi, shame, poor you. I am a very shy guy, so I know how shy guys act. Give him some time, ALWAYS have a conversation with him alone in the beginning, until he feels comfourtable with you. Shy guys act strange when they see girls they like, if other people are near. Like me for instince, if I see a girl I like in the public, I would ignore her flatout, 'cause I'm too shy. I would evade her every move. And after, regret and depression comes. So give him a chance, meet him in places where you can talk alone. Good luck
irishmolly Posted October 15, 2005 Posted October 15, 2005 okay im in the same boat as you. i have this monster crush on a boy who i know to be extremely shy. he's never kissed a girl or had a girlfriend. i am a senior and he is a junior. i am a good girl and very interested in him. he's the stud of the football team and incredible. i'm sure every girl in the school wants him like i do, but bc he's so cute and has a great body. i like all that, don't get me wrong, but i like him because he is all that and so much more! if he was like most guys, he would play the football card every where he went. screw school, screw everything... i play. not ********. he is smart, sweet, and shy. always having good grades, he has priorities. he is kind and everyone thinks he is genuine. he is shy and blushes and is not the least bit cocky. i am drawn to this side of him almost more than the other. i find him completely irresistable and always find myself thinking about him. we talk, not a ton, but some. and when we do i get butterflies and my heart literally does beat faster. i think he knows i am into him, i like to flirt, and he flirts back. however he is exteremly shy and won't ask me out. it seems to me like he wants to, but gets really nervous. i don't know to read that as his shyness only or politeness in spite of his uninterestedness. so we are whatever... flirting?? and i love wehn we do but hate when twe don't. thisngs level out and dont' really change much. however, his family seems so interested!! his parents talk to hme all the tiem, his brothers and sister always do too!! they like me and talk about him to me and me to him i guess, does this mean good or bad?! i think good somtimes, but other times i wonder if it annoys him. he seems to be everywhere i am. is this a sign? when i turn on the tv, the news guys asks his name, ill go into the hallways and he is right there at his locker. i have to go collect attendence, in his classroom. he'll open up a classroom door and im walking out. its so wierd! its all coincidental too. what can this mean!! im so frustrated i want him to either make a move or ill move on. i have tried adn left hints. i am too scared to ask him out for fear he'll freak nd ill just die of embarassment. HELP ME!!!
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