barbossa Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 after a workout at my local gym... I was out of the shower and i saw this dude kinda looking at me, I was drying myself off, naked since i had just showered and this guy was looking at me. I never think anything of it. Since i am taller than average height and don't read too much into it. Since most guys quickly cover themselves with towels or clothes At the lockers area he says hi and starts and conversation with me.( By this time i am wearing shorts) Starts asking me about fitness, different exercises etc, I answer him the best i can tell him what works for me etc. On the way out I briefly stop to chat up and introduce myself to a hot gym girl i had seen while i was working out me and this guy continue walking out together and he asks me if i want to hang out as he is new to town and doesn't have many friends. I agree to hang out with him and later that evening he meets and we drive to a outdoor entertainment area, drink and talk about everything from work, passions my ex girlfriends, relationship advice. It was a decent 3 hours 2 weird things During the evening He mentioned that he and his friends sometimes rent hotel rooms and watch porn together.... do early 30's people do this? ( He and I are both early 30's) Today he asked me if i want to go to a sex party with him Where people partake in public group sex situations ( think eyes wide shut) any insight to what is happening? (I am just of average size in my endowment, so nothing to gawk or be curious about, mildly athletic build, and I only talk about girls with him, he has mentioned female ex's too so i just don't know, he said he has been to this "party" several times already)
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 Sounds like he might be some sort of pimp.
smackie9 Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 He may have female exes but that doesn't mean he doesn't indulge in sex with men. And not that I know of a bunch of guys getting together to watch porn in a room together.....before the internet, and at bachelor parties ya guys got together to watch porn. Whatever this guy is asking I would stay away. He is a stranger. He might be setting you up to be robbed, raped or gay sex. If you are interested in group sex or casual sex, join a private club on your own. I would not trust this guy as far as I can thrown him. 7
Miss Spider Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 He's definitely wants to have hook up with you. 1
CptInsano Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 He may have female exes but that doesn't mean he doesn't indulge in sex with men. [...] Correct. I have had men show me pictures of their families, only to reveal a very obvious interest in me a little later. To the OP: You probably were being friendly and polite in the locker room. I very much keep to myself in the same situation unless I know somebody. I also try to dry myself off in private as much as possible. As much as I like to socialize, the locker room is one of the few places where I do not. And no, it is not something that people in their early 30s "just do". 3
ICarrotBoutYou Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 Sounds fun. Take some videos and be sure to share.
2much4 Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 I'm not really sure what you're asking. No, renting hotel rooms and watching porn with your friends is not the usual thing to do. This guy might be into men or have voyeuristic tendencies. Even if he is not gay I can guarantee you he's doing this for his sexual pleasure only. Not yours. If that's your cup of tea, I'm not the one to judge. If you're not into it, I don't see why you're still engaging with this guy. 1
Popsicle Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 He's gay in the closet and hoping you are too? 1
elaine567 Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 He may be new in town and he may have few friends, but staring at nude guys in the locker area, is hardly the usual way most heterosexual guys try to make new friends, is it? I am a mere woman so I could be wrong of course... 4
act00 Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 I think it's weird. No, I have never heard of a group of men renting a hotel room together and watching porn. A group of teenagers might watch porn together, the way me and my friends (I'm a girl) hid dirty magazines behind a wholesome book in the bookstore back before the internet existed, but a group of grown men renting a room for porn?? Just weird. If you're not into this sort of voyeuristic scenario, put a stop to the invitations and this friendship. Is this a guy-on-guy thing? What do you know about these sex parties? Did he explain it's hetero-, mixed, homo-? Getting ogled naked in the locker room by some guy, approached and befriended by this guy, and then plopping a sex party on you are way too many red flags for me. I really don't care what "trips your trigger," (general you) but this whole scenario is incredibly creepy to me. 2
doyathinkso Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 When you go take your tube of Zovirax with you. At the end of the evening use the entire tube to slather over your 'apparatus'.
Michelle ma Belle Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 Sounds like the makings of an amateur circle jerk. I wouldn't put it past him or his jerk off crew to record their hotel shenanigans. Everything about this sounds super sketchy. Tread carefully. 1
amaysngrace Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 I thought he didn't know many friends because he's new in town? 2
elaine567 Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 I thought he didn't know many friends because he's new in town? Well spotted. 3
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