Would you set someone up with a previous cheater

[Rosco]

So I have a work colleague, a really nice girl, great career and a nice person to hold a conversation with. We've known eachother for quite awhile. She's single, has never really had a serious relationship lasting more then a year. She is pretty truthful to me, and she's told me before she's cheated in her last 3 relationships.

So here's my question, a good friend of mine has recently become single. She heard about this and asked me to set her up with him... am I crazy not too lol ? I really don't want to set my male friend up for a disaster. But on the other hand do I give her the benefit of the doubt that people change and maybe she's grown out of the cheating phase. (She's 32)

[Popsicle]

No. I know a few cheaters and I could not set them up. I would feel responsible and guilty for whatever happens later.

[SammySammy]

No. I don't set anybody up, but I definitely wouldn't knowing set him up with a cheater who may have other issues as well.

 

Sometimes, we shouldn't get involved.

[Popsicle]

And anyway, it's a terrible idea for a female with a male friend to set her male friend up with her female friend. That is, if you don't want your friendship with the male to change. She sounds like she's drama anyway and probably just wants to interrupt your friendship because she's bored.

 

Just say no. Lie and say it's because you like him and are seeing what's up between you two.

[carhill]

Usually we'd just have parties and invite people and whatever happened happened.

 

I trust your male friend knows that women are as equally capable of infidelity as men and he can deal with any woman he meets and may be attracted to with his relationship skillset.

 

I wouldn't 'set them up', specifically, regardless of whatever intimacies she's shared.

[smackie9]

How much do you like your friend? Seriously that is a stupid question. Why would you?

 

Tell your friend you know of a for sure thing that is only good for a quick slam.

[Robratory]

There's no such thing as a cheating phase.

 

Since she's the one asking, sure, I'd set her up with him, but I'd tell him, "Hey, there's this girl who wants to meet you, but just so you know, she cheats on her boyfriends."

[act00]

As far as your coworker is concerned, let her know that you're not comfortable mixing your professional and private life together, and you will not be setting anyone up. If those two meet and hook up on their own, that's all them.

 

I would probably let my friend know that my coworker has eyes on him and that she's a serial cheater, and beyond that, stay uninvolved. If this friend decides to go for it, it's all him.

 

If they hook up on their own, stay out of any discussion about their love life, especially in the work place. You don't want to be in the middle of any relationship drama at work.

[preraph]

No. Either tell her why directly or lie and tell her, when you called him he said he really liked this new woman he is seeing. Then if there's a way, she may go at him behind your back, so warn him about her.