ExpatInItaly Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 Don't even worry about this other guy right now. Break up with your boyfriend first. Be gentle, but be firm. Don't give him false hope that it could work in the future or something like that. Tell him you appreciate the time you spent together but you no longer feel the same way and it's not fair on either of you to continue this relationship. 3
smackie9 Posted August 12, 2017 Posted August 12, 2017 I agree. You liking this other guy is none of your BFs business because in reality you have done nothing yet. Liking someone isn't a crime, and whatever happens in your head or your imagination is no ones bizwax. Just suck it up and tell your BF he deserves to have someone that will him love back because you no longer can't....that it's nothing he has done or didn't do, and truthfully it's just that you no long feel that way. Say you are sorry that this hurts, and it's the last thing you want to do to him, but you need to do this for you. No sense in living a lie. 1
healing light Posted August 13, 2017 Posted August 13, 2017 If you use any other excuse than the truth, be prepared for him to argue with you and try to fix it. Worry about the other guy after you've done the right thing with your boyfriend.
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