BethH2002 Posted August 9, 2017 Posted August 9, 2017 (edited) So me and my ex broke up a month ago, and before that we'd arranged a group weekend away with our friends which was all paid for and neither of us could back out. Well, that weekend is coming up in like 2 days. Now luckily, he's working Friday so is travelling down from London to Brighton after work whereas the rest of us are getting a coach down in the morning. I'm just not sure how to be this weekend. It's only been a month and I know I still have strong feelings for him. I don't want things to be really awkward, but I have a feeling something might end up happening this weekend between us. I don't want to sound like a lovesick teenager, but when we broke up, a lot of it had to do with drama from his ex, and we both said we still loved each other. Whether this is the case still and he still has feelings, I'm not sure. Rationally, I know that even if something happens, we most likely won't get back together but I can't shut up the irrational part of my brain that wants us to even though I know it would be a bad idea. Any advice from anyone on how to deal with things? P.S. I'd also like to clarify in case of any confusion due to my username that I'm actually 20, but as my birthday is 20/02 I use that a lot. Didn't want someone to think I was 15 and end up being concerned about me going away for the weekend with my ex. Edited August 9, 2017 by BethH2002
sandylee1 Posted August 9, 2017 Posted August 9, 2017 If you're okay with hooking up and nothing more, then I guess go with the flow. If not, just be friendly and don't get physical or you'll end up feeling used.
ZayKayWill Posted August 9, 2017 Posted August 9, 2017 I took a look at your other post before this. You guys broke up twice it looks like? Why do you guys keep breaking up a getting back together? Seems pretty obvious that you 2 want each other, otherwise you both wouldn't be okay with going on this trip together. Why aren't you guys together now? It sounds like you wanna be with him, but for some reason he doesn't want the same? Why doesn't he want the same from you?
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