arlington Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months now. Everything has been great and we have been taking it slow, but sometimes I get the feeling that sometimes when we spend too much time togehter. I try to give him his space, but we just end up doing a lot together. I have read some books on relationships and it seems to be a delicate balancing act of being together often while showing indepandance. He is also a very good boyfriend and does a lot for me when I am used to doing things on my own. I really enjoy it and I feel that a thank you does not suffice even though that is all he says he wants. I know his ex was not appreciative of things he did and I am try my best to let him know that I am, but sometimes I feel that my show of appreciation and wanting to do more than say thank you might annoy him. Can anyone give me some advice before I mess something up! :-) Thanks
iamwalrus Posted August 10, 2005 Posted August 10, 2005 i'm kind of confused as to what your trying to ask here. your afraid that you might "annoy" him by helping him out? why would that annoy him? if i did a lot for my girlfriend, i would never "expect" anything back in return, nor would i expect anything back in return from my brother. im just not that kind of person. however, it would not "annoy" me if someone did things for me. i would just be like "AWESOME" now i can sit back and have a cold one.
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