heartnsoul Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 I'm feeling so hurt right now that I don't know what to do with myself. Three weeks ago, my bf told me that we needed to take a 'break'. He told me that he needed to understand/confirm his feelings for me and that he was afraid of being hurt. I understood because we had somewhat of a whirlwind start to our relationship. We spent our weekends together and occasionally got together 1 day during the work week. I met his family and daughter rather quickly and although we moved kinda fast, I thought that we had good chemistry. After our conversation regarding the break he called about a week later to let me know that he was having a hard time with not knowing what to do. Our conversation was friendly and I figured that he just needed time and I was OK with that. It's now been 2 weeks since his last call and today happens to be my birthday. I just can't believe that after everything that was said and done during our time together that he could just turn his back on me like this. I made it clear when he was asking for this time that if he felt that he didn't want to continue to just let me know right then and there and he reassured me that he didn't want to end things (at that time, I guess) Half of this conversation, he was in tears....I just don't get it I don't want to make excuses for his wreckless behavior (with my heart) but his reluctance made sense to me. The mother of his daughter (who is 3) basically cheated on him and from what I was told was a pathological liar. That relationship ended 2 years ago and basically she left him with their infant to move in with her new bf. After a year of being absent she decided to step in and become a mother again. So, for the past year they have been in and out of court for child support and custody hearings. I'm not going to bore you guys with all of his problems but...... I guess I'm basically on here to know if anyone else has been thru this before and to get a 3rd person point of view. Right now, I'm so hurt that even if he did call, I don't know if I'd take it. My feelings for him are so strong and I'm just really torn right now.
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