amazonrambo Posted August 8, 2017 Posted August 8, 2017 (edited) Me and my girlfriend have been together two weeks now and she still sends me texts saying she's thinking of me, wish I was with her in her bed right now, etc so I must be doing something correctly. Anyway, last week her parents were away on holiday and her sister was away so she invited me around to stay over. One thing led to another and we went upstairs. I've had sex before but part of me still felt a little nervous because it would be our first time together. Now to cut a long story short, I didn't have trouble getting it up but she did have condoms. With my ex, she was on the pill so it was much better that way but my girlfriend said she wasn't on it/or the injection. Unfortunately her condoms were too small (). I tried and she tried. We laughed about it, there was nothing awkward about it. She told me she actually prefers it without a condom, but wasn't on any other protection. So we started doing other sexual things, which must have worked because she told me it was turning her on which lead to her wanting sex with me without protection, but to the point where I'd stop before finishing. I told her as much as I would like to, I wouldn't want to risk something happening, aka pregnancy (especially with her career she's worked hard and tirelessly for starting in September) and that we would probably get so into the moment, that there were no guarantees of not finishing. She seemed fine with it and acted normal and we spent most of the day after cuddling/laying with each other. Obviously I've posted this here because I'm worried whether girls might be actually disappointed if something like this happens, but she's too polite to say. Since then she has invited me to her family's anniversary in two weeks and we have planned a romantic holiday to Italy (Venice and Rome) in late October, so I can't see there being any problem. She told me her sister is moving out in 3 weeks and we can try again then (when she's on the pill/injection), I'm just worried if we don't have sex soon enough, what if the attraction fades? Edited August 8, 2017 by amazonrambo
Scarlett.O'hara Posted August 8, 2017 Posted August 8, 2017 If a woman loses interest in you for not having sex with her without protection then you should seriously question her motives. What you did was the mature and responsible thing to do. Something else to bare in mind, being on the pill won't protect you from possible life threatening diseases. You barely know each other in this period of time, so think carefully. Perhaps you need to invest in some magnums for future encounters. 6
Steve51 Posted August 8, 2017 Posted August 8, 2017 Many a life has been ruined due to a lack of a condom. Sometimes girls want to get pregnant as happened to my cousin. Girl got pregnant, they married and after the baby was born she left him telling him that she only wanted him to have a baby in wedlock. It happens. Even if not deliberate, all it takes is one single sperm to make it and next thing you know, you are a father. I am 66 and married for 45. Both my wife and I are sterile so no kids. If I had a kid I would not have been able to move 13 times, sometimes without spending a full month in a new house. I would not have been able to buy my own new home at 21 and become one of two world recognized experts in my field and the alternate U.N. Advisor to the other expert who was in his eighties and could not travel as easily as I could. We are living in our 9th home and life was very good to us. Lots of disposable cash and 4 vacations a year as well as living anywhere in the world we wanted to. If it was a planned child after we got married, I would be fine with whatever life I had. However, if my life had changed due to an unplanned child out of wedlock, I would be cursing my stupidity every day of my life. You made the right choice. 1
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