Ganderson Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 I have been going out with this girls for three weeks. I have spent nearly $800 already for oour hotel rooms, food and drinks. Last week when we went to a hotel room for the first time, she refused to sleep in the same bed with me. In addition, she always orders the most expensive meals and drinks every time we go out. Can anyone tell me how much longer I have to put up with this before getting sex from her? Is she using me???? I am so mad at her now.
Curt Posted August 9, 2005 Moderators Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by Ganderson Can anyone tell me how much longer I have to put up with this before getting sex from her? Is she using me???? I am so mad at her now. Yes, I can tell you. You will never get sex from her like this. She is using you, and sadly, you're not yet realizing that she is only going to let you plunge into one thing...debt. Leave her now. Surely you did not believe that you could get to be with her by doing this... Curt
Marshbear32 Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 I hope this gal is really worth it. Since you've spent so much already you might as well keep going until she throws you a mercy hump. I would take her to the fanciest hotels and buy the best food and wine and then she's sure to give it up to you. We all know the way to the pu$$y is lots of cash and patience.
lovinfun22 Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 First of all, don't try so hard. You shouldn't have to spend that kind of money unless your buying a prostitute for the night. Take her out somewhere without needing to spend money. Use your intelligence to win her over. I'm sure she knows that she can get whatever she wants with you, so yeah, she's probably using you. If all you want is sex, she's probably not your girl.
Author Ganderson Posted August 9, 2005 Author Posted August 9, 2005 I am 28 and she is 21. She is very attractive and she voluntarily messed around with me on the first night we met in a club. She knows that I have a good job and drive a Lexus, but I want her to like me for who I am, not what I can offer. I am not sure what is in her mind. Is she playing hard to get or just using me? I suspect that she never intends to have sex with me.
curiousnycgirl Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Why are you guys spending the night together after only three weeks? Where are you taking her on these dates? The beginning of a relationship is the "getting to know you" stage. There is no reason to go broke, so to speak, while you are still figuring out if this is going anywhere. In this situation - I agree with Curt - if she is ordering the most expensive thing off the menu, etc. she is not showing any consideration and is probably using you.
smile95 Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 I think that you sound like a sleezeball and that is prob why she is not having sex with you. Why do you want to waste your $ on her if you will just get sick of her after 5 times? Funny how the women and men have VERY diff views about this. I agree with curiousnygirl-you have only known her 3 wks! Do you not want to get to know her? If all you want is sex, go pick up a hooker in your luxury car! A lot cheaper and I bet she will not care when you leave her after having sex with her 5 times! (as you say in your other post)
johnflyr Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 He does not have a chance. He shows his hand too quick.
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