fairyfloff Posted August 7, 2017 Posted August 7, 2017 I am a female and finding it soo difficult on Tinder! Guys swipe but won't respond! I initiate conversations after a few days but it goes nowhere or no response. I am ok looking in photos but probably better in real life. The guys that I do end up meeting, would be interested in me and would try to pursue but I am not (they don't look like their pictures and lack personality/social skills/no job). I am the female equivalent of all the guys complaining about their experience with OLD
d0nnivain Posted August 7, 2017 Posted August 7, 2017 So try a different platform. I think Bumble has the same function as Tinder. Also don't put all your eggs in one basket. Try meeting people IRL. 1
smackie9 Posted August 7, 2017 Posted August 7, 2017 (edited) Hun you are selling yourself.....if you were looking would OK photos get your attention, or WOW look at that! photos catch your attention? Guys are very visual creatures...if you are not putting your all into making yourself look sexy and inviting, no one is going to bite or any quality guy. And that is a fact. So go back and redo your profile. Edited August 7, 2017 by smackie9 2
scooby-philly Posted August 7, 2017 Posted August 7, 2017 listen to d0nnivain and Smackie - 95% of the time they're on point. i'm a 36 yr old male that's had the pleasure of being engaged, had ltrs, but unfortunately not married yet (ugh). Anyway - to be honest - I'm a genuinely nice guy and yes, any man (unless he's asexual or lying) is attracted to beauty. Now that said - yes take some time to take care of yourself and only post good pics and if you don't have any - take some! - But also remember - beauty is in the eye...I've date a few women that were attractive to me, and maybe wouldn't be to other guys. And I see plenty of women at work, in the city, around places that I'm sure a lot of guys would drool over and I'm like - nah. And yes - don't place your eggs in one basket. Honestly - I've learned so much on here and by being persistent in life - go out and do what your love, go out and do what you want to try, etc - just always keep your eye open, try your best to give off positive vibes, and also remember - most decent guys don't mind a woman taking the lead and/or making the first move or at least making their interests CLEAR. Positive energy attracts people. 2
max3732 Posted August 7, 2017 Posted August 7, 2017 I am a female and finding it soo difficult on Tinder! Guys swipe but won't respond! I initiate conversations after a few days but it goes nowhere or no response. I am ok looking in photos but probably better in real life. The guys that I do end up meeting, would be interested in me and would try to pursue but I am not (they don't look like their pictures and lack personality/social skills/no job). I am the female equivalent of all the guys complaining about their experience with OLD Yep, that's been my situation so far with OLD. Definitely get some better pictures taken! I can't tell you how aggravating it is to go through pictures and see them in the dark/huge sun glasses or where she puts a Halloween mask or uses snapchat to look like a cat or something. You mentioned lacking social skills. Are you sure that some of those guys weren't just nervous about meeting you? When I go out I get very nervous and don't have the same social skills I normally have.
smackie9 Posted August 7, 2017 Posted August 7, 2017 Note* you are what you attract. You want better, better yourself to the point of intimidating the socially awkward, and the creepers out of the equation. 2
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