A long way from LA and Woodstock, with Asperger

[AndyMate30]

This is what I told my wife before we got married.

 

I have Asperger syndrome and I'm not from California's hollywood Neverland, nor am I from my upper middle class aunt's Woodstock.

 

And I'm from Philadelphia....and that place s)ucks, And I dont have money and I don't have a PhD in rocket science...

And my dad was a drunk.

 

Philadelphia's democratic liberal ideology is the kind that wants their food stamps.

 

It's not the progressive, we hire gay african American people with down syndrome, pass around the joint kind of a place...

 

And I never had any opportunities.

 

I had to build a body, because wasn't allowed to build a mind until I had a body.

 

Now, knowing that...

Just you understand...

 

If we get married, are you going to be there with me and accept the fact that my love is likely all I will have to offer you ?

 

Because it's very important that you understand that.

 

You are at the very most liberal, my stepmom.

 

Do you accept that level of commitment ?

Are you my mom ?

 

Are you there for me, as long as I'm not the abusive mister king d!ck and crazy and drunk ?

.

Because I need you.

 

Because if we're going to get married, I cannot afford to have games played....

And I won't get into a relationship that is dangerous for me or the both of us.

 

That's what I said to her

[preraph]

And how's it working out?

[AndyMate30]

And how's it working out?

 

Good so far, because she knows what am able to do for her...

And I am keeping my end of the deal very well.

Edited August 6, 2017 by AndyMate30

[Tamari]

Hi Andy, thank you for posting that.

 

Does your wife understand the way you are? If so, how does she demonstate that?

[littleblackheart]

Hi fellow Aspie!

 

Help me understand: are you having marital problems?

[AndyMate30]

Hi fellow Aspie!

 

Help me understand: are you having marital problems?

 

It's going good so far, two years in

[AndyMate30]

Hi Andy, thank you for posting that.

 

Does your wife understand the way you are? If so, how does she demonstate that?

 

Yes she understands.

She said that obviously she can't live a nightmare disasterous life, of being abused, which I wouldn't do either, but she agrees to take the good with the bad overall and get through life together.

[AndyMate30]

She's also an RN.

[Tamari]

What is an RN?