Misunderstood_85 Posted August 5, 2017 Posted August 5, 2017 Im 31 and started dating a 28 year old who came out of a 8 year relationship, our relationship was fast, what I mean is we fell hard for each other and really got on well and fell deeper for each other we both love each other deeply and shared our most intimate felings and past with each other it was a deeoer connection than both of us ever had, then she wanted space it lasted 2 days then she came back it happened aģain i let her she came back after a week move forward a month abd we start arguing a little more frequently and sometime its really bad, she ends up confused not knwing if this is for her etc, she then asks me to move in so I orepare for that cancelling my lease and move in with her within a week she has told me in the heat of an argument to oack my **** and leave and starts oacking my stuff for me, so I do it, I leave later the same day she asks when Im coming back at this point Im so confused and decide I need a little break so i take a couple days out and the arguments continue via text and she telling me Im abodoning her and how could I treat her like this etc.. I finally go and see her after 3/4 days we have a great night together dinner candles the works all by her effort and she apologised and gave me a photo album with lovely photos and messages of love and desire, i didnt see her for a couple of days after that but I told how much I care/love/appreciate everything she did that night... I was supoosed to see her 2 nights after but a family emergancy came up and I couldnt make it, this is where it gets interesting... I told her I cant make it (it was a sunday) due to a family emergancy and she said she understood and she will see me in the week no arguments quite civil.. Monday morning she tells me she needs space and doesnt want to be together with me! I asked why and she just said she feels let down and unloved.. She said she loves me and cant switch those feelings off but want to be on her own. She says maybe in the future we can make a gi at it again.. My question is a multy question! Do I give her the space and wait for her with no contact Do I try and help her see me and what we are? Do I wait around for her to contact me and make a go at it again or should I accept its over and move on.. I know she loves me deeply and this is hurting her as much as it is hurtimg me, pretty lost here as in what to do?
spiderowl Posted August 5, 2017 Posted August 5, 2017 She sounds so unreliable and changeable that you would be crazy to get involved with her. I don't think you can trust this woman to know her own mind. She does not seem very keen on you or she would not keep switching like this. For your own sake, give up on her and find someone stable.
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