MadMax20 Posted August 4, 2017 Posted August 4, 2017 (edited) I'm at 28 year old guy and I've been with this girl for 7 years. And a few years ago I found out she was "stepping out". Ever since then it's been super hard to trust her again, and even when we discussed the problem, she'd avoid telling me everything that happen. Only telling part of the story, things like that. Well, once our lease was up on our apartment, We moved to different cities which are like 20-25 mins apart. After 2 weeks of not seeing her (which I wasn't used to because we lived together for a few years) I decided to meet up with her. That was the best day I've had with her in awhile and we had both agreed that space was the key to figuring things out. Fast forward about 2 weeks later, We meet up again, only this time we went to a party at the suites close by, and we ran into one of the guys that she had been fooling around with. So obviously we argued. Then that following week, she breaks things off with me via Text Message. She sent me a super long, 3-4 page text message saying we should try dating other people, and told me she wishes me the best in the future. WTF. I'm all pissed off by the fact that I never got to say what I wanted. I haven't responded to her text message either, by the way. Also to just throw it in there, I was her first boyfriend. But yeah, It's been a long, long couple of weeks. I've literally experienced every emotion I possibly could. Why do you think she did what she did? You'd think after 7 years of being together (not including the 1.5 years of me knowing her prior to a relationship) that if she wanted to drop something that heavy on me, she'd at least meet with me in person. Hell, at the very least even a phone call. I think a text message was the easy way out. what do you guys think? Edited August 4, 2017 by MadMax20 left something out
preraph Posted August 5, 2017 Posted August 5, 2017 I agree it's chickeny but you had already had some sort of breakup from living together, so surely you had a talk then. Text her back what you want to say to her if you need to get it off your chest. Sorry. It's a long time to be together, but you guys were really young and that rarely works out. Now, however, you are at a prime age when men are most attractive and have more going for them, so mourn and get your anger out, but then accept it and start going out and doing things again without dwelling on her and with the goal of just refocusing. Good luck.
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