fred123 Posted August 3, 2017 Posted August 3, 2017 I want to know how people would feel that is all. Only cos it helps me relate i guess.and i like talking on here its therapeutic so hope peoplle dont mind . This isnt what happened with my ex but i wanted to ask people what if you dated someone for a bit and they broke up with you because of religious reasons. And you understand that because some cultures and religions there is pressure to marry within. So it sucks when that happens but the person wants to find someone of their own culture. But what if you find out a monthr or two later that the person is now dating someone of a conpletelty different religion to them. Isnt that so hurtful? Isnt that disrespectful to you? Isnt that humiliating and isnt that their way of saying they werent into you?
CptInsano Posted August 3, 2017 Posted August 3, 2017 I have an ex who was dishonest. She is currently on her third husband, I think. I have lost count of the guys she was with in between. I'm feeling a sense of gratitude that I was able to dodge that bullet and didn't marry her.
smackie9 Posted August 3, 2017 Posted August 3, 2017 I thought it was OK to date someone of religious difference....it was the stupidest thing I ever did. That's when I learned about compatibility and how important it is. 1
kendahke Posted August 3, 2017 Posted August 3, 2017 I want to know how people would feel that is all. Only cos it helps me relate i guess.and i like talking on here its therapeutic so hope peoplle dont mind . This isnt what happened with my ex but i wanted to ask people what if you dated someone for a bit and they broke up with you because of religious reasons. And you understand that because some cultures and religions there is pressure to marry within. So it sucks when that happens but the person wants to find someone of their own culture. But what if you find out a monthr or two later that the person is now dating someone of a conpletelty different religion to them. Isnt that so hurtful? Yes, it could be, but it doesn't mean that she's not going to put them through what she put you through. Isnt that disrespectful to you? Isnt that humiliating and isnt that their way of saying they werent into you? No, it's not humiliating--only if she kept with you and sought him out at the same time would that be disrespectful. But she and you broke up, so she's free to do what she wants to do. The only way I'd call it disrespectful and humiliating was if I chose to wallow in self pity over it and I told my sad tale to everyone I could find. 1
kortz Posted August 3, 2017 Posted August 3, 2017 At the end of the day you don't know what she's thinking or the through process she went through when getting together with her new partner. She could have just been using that as a good excuse to get out the relationship, or she might have been genuine and then met this other person and gone with her heart instead of her head and in the end it'll end up the same way. But it's in the past for you now so it's her problem (and his) so think nothing of it and find someone you are compatible with.
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