Author lostmyshadow Posted August 7, 2017 Author Posted August 7, 2017 I found out why the one sister was bringing up petty things from so long ago. She blames me for something that happened and still resents me. She didn't say anything for two years and then suddenly told everything to my boyfriend. I don't have the energy to explain it all. Basically, she said she was okay with stuff that she wasn't, made decisions she didn't want to make and told us she wanted to, etc. And blames it mostly on me. What a load of BS. I understand her side of it. But come on. Take some personal responsibility for it. My boyfriend actually admitted today that most of this wouldn't have happened if he hadn't blabbed in the first place. Also apologized for asking me to spend so much time with them when he knows I know they don't like me. He also agreed that he needs to say something to them. He is figuring out how to go about it. I'm not holding my breath. But I think he might actually pull through. Oh, and we agreed that I'm not visiting with his family any time soon. I'm tired of it. He needs to sort things out with them first.
Author lostmyshadow Posted August 12, 2017 Author Posted August 12, 2017 UPDATE Last weekend his sister made a passive-aggressive, snarky comment about me and my boyfriend told her to shut up. This past Friday, my boyfriend skipped a family event because he's fed up with how his sisters are acting. (oh, and I found out it is just the two sisters who have a serious issue with me. The others siblings and in-laws are more neutral). Today he was texting with his younger sister and he mentioned going to a festival with me today. She told him she didn't want to hear about me. He responded by telling her "I'm still dating her, so you'll have to get used to it." He also told her that he's at fault for some of the stuff that happened. She told him that she still blames me.... okay then. I like what I'm seeing so far. Hopefully he keeps it up. 1
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