Shyguy94 Posted August 2, 2017 Posted August 2, 2017 So I was out for a walk this morning when I encountered this very beautiful woman who is getting out of her car and starts walking my way. After we passed each other, I naturally looked back after a second for another look, liked what I saw, so decided I’d get a second look when I caught her looking back as well. Thinking I got caught checking her out, I quickly looked forward again nervously. As I turned the corner I caught her turning around again to look at me. At this point we were pretty far apart so I couldn’t tell if she was smiling or anything like that. In your opinions do you think she was checking me out or giving me the stink-eye for checking her out? Thanks
CautiouslyOptimistic Posted August 2, 2017 Posted August 2, 2017 So I was out for a walk this morning when I encountered this very beautiful woman who is getting out of her car and starts walking my way. After we passed each other, I naturally looked back after a second for another look, liked what I saw, so decided I’d get a second look when I caught her looking back as well. Thinking I got caught checking her out, I quickly looked forward again nervously. As I turned the corner I caught her turning around again to look at me. At this point we were pretty far apart so I couldn’t tell if she was smiling or anything like that. In your opinions do you think she was checking me out or giving me the stink-eye for checking her out? Thanks Checking you out. If she was annoyed by you checking her out, she'd ignore you because she wouldn't want you to think she was checking YOU out! 1
Bastile Posted August 2, 2017 Posted August 2, 2017 Do not wait for IOI's in speaking to a girl that strikes your fancy. Even advanced guys do that. It's pathetic and submissive. It's waiting for permission to speak. As a man, a woman's tight arse in a pair of jeans is all the IOI that you need. Go have fun. 1
smackie9 Posted August 2, 2017 Posted August 2, 2017 sorry but lets face it...most guys (not all) don't have the nut sack to say something..... It isn't going to kill ya to make a move.....what's the worse that can happen? She says no? ohhhh so scary. 2
Author Shyguy94 Posted August 2, 2017 Author Posted August 2, 2017 Well it all happened so quick so I didn't really have the chance to say anything and I wasn't about to run back towards her to go ask her out. I have reason to believe she may work at a nearby restaurant so perhaps I'll go in for lunch one day to see if she does indeed work there.
Robratory Posted August 3, 2017 Posted August 3, 2017 Hey Shyguy94, as an older guy, I advise you to stop thinking of yourself as a shy guy. Think that you're just not the kind to make an ass out of yourself at a bar, drunk and hassling girls for their phone numbers. You're a good guy, and good girls (i.e. the ones who aren't drama queens) like good guys. Next time something like this happens, make yourself react in a friendly manner. Say hi, and if she's too far away, why not, give her a little wave. You'd be surprised by how friendly women can be. They're actually not meanies. 1
Bastile Posted August 3, 2017 Posted August 3, 2017 sorry but lets face it...most guys (not all) don't have the nut sack to say something..... It isn't going to kill ya to make a move.....what's the worse that can happen? She says no? ohhhh so scary. Easy for you to say It simply doesn't work from a position of being loved up, having a oneitis over a random female. Not in my experience. You learn from a position of indiscriminately hitting on women, based on having a nice arse, a great feminine energy, a sexy fashion, or whatever. Then, when a great moment comes (the sort that gets guys making threads about it), you have the wherewithal. First half dozen cold approaches that I ever made was from behind the girl. Because it was easier. It's actually easier to approach a girl like that, than one who gives you interest on the street within 10 seconds of equivocal interest. It's all about building experience. Sod this girl, don't get hung up on her to start searching her job or whatever. Learn the social skills that allow you to speak to the next girl with a great arse instead.
rightondude Posted August 3, 2017 Posted August 3, 2017 OK I'll be the contrarian, is it possible she looked again to make sure you weren't coming after her and she didn't need to take off running? And ... if I'm wrong, and she WAS checking you out ... to all the boss pimpdaddies on this forum, what's your next move? 1
Miss Spider Posted August 3, 2017 Posted August 3, 2017 (edited) sorry but lets face it...most guys (not all) don't have the nut sack to say something..... It isn't going to kill ya to make a move.....what's the worse that can happen? She says no? ohhhh so scary. Op, next time say hello! Edited August 3, 2017 by Cookiesandough
CptInsano Posted August 3, 2017 Posted August 3, 2017 sorry but lets face it...most guys (not all) don't have the nut sack to say something.....[...] But it is true, nevertheless. I wish I still had the link to the study; it analyzed what made men successful in approaching women. It took height, build, looks, locations and all kinds of other parameters into consideration. All that matters was whether they talked to women and were able to handle rejection. It isn't going to kill ya to make a move.....what's the worse that can happen? She says no? ohhhh so scary. Did you ever read "The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo"? There is a scene in which the murderer ensnares a victim knowing that people would rather risk bodily harm than being publicly shamed. I've met people who had no trouble with a bar fight, but were too scared to talk to women. 2
preraph Posted August 3, 2017 Posted August 3, 2017 Did she smile at you when you first walked by her? If not she is probably not the least bit interested. Women will look back over their shoulder after they pass a guy just to make sure the guy isn't turning around and following them because women have reasons to fear guys on the street. That said if you see her again say hi and see what happens.
The411 Posted August 3, 2017 Posted August 3, 2017 Assume all woman are interested until they show you they are not.
Bastile Posted August 4, 2017 Posted August 4, 2017 And ... if I'm wrong, and she WAS checking you out ... to all the boss pimpdaddies on this forum, what's your next move? You can be lazy, and have me spoonfeed you everything. Or you can download a torrent called "The Daygame Blueprint". Which is exactly what I am revisiting now before getting back in the game myself.
rightondude Posted August 4, 2017 Posted August 4, 2017 LOL I am definitely lazy. Why should I listen to or read a torrent (I don't typically go torrent hunting as it seems kinda sketchy) for the answer to one simple question? I'm want to know one thing: what the next move would be. Not the entirety of the conversation or building of the relationship. I'm just asking what a normal looking guy says to a gorgeous woman who may or may not have glanced his way while she got out of her car. A woman who presumably gets hit on dozens of times every day by guys she knows and then a few times by guys she doesn't know. What acts or words of magic separate you from all these other guys and their feeble attempts? OK OK I'll look for the torrent. :-)
Bastile Posted August 4, 2017 Posted August 4, 2017 LOL I am definitely lazy. Why should I listen to or read a torrent (I don't typically go torrent hunting as it seems kinda sketchy) for the answer to one simple question? I'm want to know one thing: what the next move would be. Not the entirety of the conversation or building of the relationship. I'm just asking what a normal looking guy says to a gorgeous woman who may or may not have glanced his way while she got out of her car. A woman who presumably gets hit on dozens of times every day by guys she knows and then a few times by guys she doesn't know. What acts or words of magic separate you from all these other guys and their feeble attempts? OK OK I'll look for the torrent. :-) Loads and loads of different ideologies. I've tried a lot, and prefer a simple compliment. What separates me? lol Most women can count on one hand the amount of times they have been approached during the day. How many of those do you think were done with any sort of skill? Yeah, torrents are sketchy. That and porn are probably the reasons this laptop is on the brink. But there you are.
Miss Spider Posted August 4, 2017 Posted August 4, 2017 LOL I am definitely lazy. Why should I listen to or read a torrent (I don't typically go torrent hunting as it seems kinda sketchy) for the answer to one simple question? I'm want to know one thing: what the next move would be. Not the entirety of the conversation or building of the relationship. I'm just asking what a normal looking guy says to a gorgeous woman who may or may not have glanced his way while she got out of her car. A woman who presumably gets hit on dozens of times every day by guys she knows and then a few times by guys she doesn't know. What acts or words of magic separate you from all these other guys and their feeble attempts? OK OK I'll look for the torrent. :-) For me, I like a certain look on a guy. No, it it usually isn't the objectively '10' with the perfectly chiseled cheekbones and hard abs, signaling his health and ability to protect and provide me offspring blah blah sometimes. Most of the time I'm not into that. It's often the '6' guy who does it for me. You know how you're into women for some reason you can't explain and your friends don't get it? It's a certain look and style/presence. I'd wager all people are this way. So you really shouldn't approach ppl based on some scale
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