iamwalrus Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 if a guy is nervous when he calls a girl to ask her out, and starts stuttering like crazy, and gets all tounge tied, is that a turn off? will the girl (considering she's a nice girl) think "oh thats so sweet" or will she be like "p-ssy!!!"
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by iamwalrus will she be like "p-ssy!!!" u got it. He has to be easy to talk to, but I might give him a chance if I know he is really shy, but if it is a chore to make conversation then it will be a first-last date.
Author iamwalrus Posted August 9, 2005 Author Posted August 9, 2005 "chore to talk to" what about... last night i called a girl i liked, but i didnt make it a chore for her to talk to me.. she knew that i was having a hard time and that i was nervous, and i actually did a good job keeping the convo going for her... but for me it sucked. i was all tougne tied (and i had a few drinks) it was about a 30 second phone call. and it sucked. i said something like this "hey whats up this is ____. and she was like "oh hey whats up" and i was like "wa-wa-wa-well this might sa sa sa sound a little crazy, but umm, i sorta umm, like you and um, i wawawas umm wondering if i could maybe like, sorta, take you to a movie sometime.. and she was like "i don't know ive been really busy lately..." it sucked. she told me to call her back later on this week when i wasn't wasted. i think she might like me a little bit though. its kind of a long story. any advice? and one of my friends was in the background going "hahahah rejected!!! rejected!!!" damn. i made such a fool of myself. but back when i didnt like her, i talked to her every now and then, and i wasn't "shy" at all. so she knows my personalty. but last night, i just sounded dumb. what should i do? i am such a dumb -ss. i actually said that, i was like "im sorry, i get really nervous when i talk to girls, and then i just sound like an idiot, and she was like "its okay" i need some advice.
MWC_LifeBeginsAt40 Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 okay well u might want to write down what to say next time and practice. When your heart starts beating a thousand times a minute and you start to sweat, take a deep breath and speak slowly. And dont just ask if she wants to do whatever "sometime". Ask for a specific night or give her a choice of days to choose from (ie. This saturday or this weekend wanna go to this movie .... it starts at 8pm...I heard it's very good, and thought you migh tlike it....etc etc).
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