Laws Of Attraction -Mind Games ?

[eternal.denied84]

Hi, I met this girl when I was visiting another country. We both were visitors from the same home country. We came close and hooked up. After one week of hanging out, time came when we were to return back to our home country This girl told me that there is no future and that I should forget what happened calling it a one night stand.

 

I think I really liked this girl and I would want to stay in touch. We both are back to our home country , different cities and have not been in touch since 2 weeks.The last time we spoke, she told me that she would want to stay friends to which I replied of course but ever since then neither of us have contacted each other.

 

I thought if I didn't call her, she will miss me and will try to get in touch but this has not happened and 15 days have passed by.

 

What have Igot here ? I have deleted her number but every day I get this urge to ask her number again and call her. Would this kill any chance I may have?

 

Should I chase the girl? Would chasing her drive her away?

Have I already lost her ?

[d0nnivain]

She already told you that you were a vacation fling, that she had fun but has no interest in a relationship. You chased anyway & she gave you the old line about being friends. She doesn't really want to be your friend but it's a polite thing people say even though it's a lie.

 

 

You didn't lose her because you never had her. You were a warm body & a fun time on vacation, nothing more.

 

 

Chasing her will just annoy her. You already blocked her number. Leave her alone.

[smackie9]

Dude she told you what happened on the vaycay stays in the vaycay.....it was just a fling, it's over. I agree forget about her.

[knabe]

There are no mind games here except the ones you are playing with yourself.

[coolheadal]

See when a girl told you what's up you need to listen to her. Stop this and move on she's gone for good. You can remember the fun but what should you, has no meaning no purpose just dead!

[hercules22]

yep no mind games here just a holiday hookup i never speak to those girls after im out of the country i do have some of them on my facebook but never interact with them lol

[Chilli]

This whole so called mind game thing thrown all around the net is just bs.

Sorry man but it's very simple, she spent time with you and by the end didn't wanna take it any further, it's like try before you buy.

Well she decided it wasn't the car for her and she's not buying.

The whole wanna be friends thing is just the polite way of saying ok thanks but no thanks l'm outa here.

Don't chase her she's not interested sorry.

Edited August 4, 2017 by Chilli

[Miss Spider]

A lot of women expect guys to do the chasing. They just refuse to do it. I'd let this one go. If definitely seems done. But just for future reference.