Spartan 117 Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 OK folks, we'll I was asked out by my friend at work, and we're supposed to go out tonight....but it's a tuesday night, we dont get off work until 11, so theres nothing open anymore, I'm thinking about postponing it until thursday, heres my plan. First I think we'll go out and get some coffee downtown a talk for a while, then walk to this great outdoor resturant thats going to be playing Casablanca projected onto the wall of the next building. Great atmosphere. I'm thinking we'll have dinner there as well. I would really like to have the date tonight, but theres just plain nothing to do. Any additions/suggerstions/comments?
lvgrly Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Oh yes there is hun... Take a blanket, go to an open park or some place that you guys can just sit and talk with no distractions, just you and her. Go swing on the swings, take something to drink, and maybe something to snack on.. See how tonight goes and if it goes well with just the two of you, then YOU ask her out for thursday night... Its sweet, not over the top and a really good way to get to know someone. Going someplace low key for a first date gives both of you each others full attention... Good luck!
Nomad Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Well, lots of stuff is open at 11PM, such as bars. Unless you're both too young to drink, in which case I'd like to say again I think it should be mandatory for posters to list their age to better help them.
Author Spartan 117 Posted August 13, 2005 Author Posted August 13, 2005 ok i'm still confused about things, she ended up not being able to go on thursday due to some things with her parents, and told me to call her when I was done going to a concert, she was heading home at that time, and later on she drunk dialed me, and was saying things like "I want to invite you over but I'm drunk and I know we'll have sex and dont want you to get all weirded out and stop talking to me" Which doesnt necessarily mean anything because she was drunk, but I feel hesitant to ask her out again, because I feel uncomfortable asking someone out after they cancel a date because I always take it as a bad sign, I'm thinking maybe I'll give it a week or so and maybe ask her out again.
Author Spartan 117 Posted August 17, 2005 Author Posted August 17, 2005 OK an update: She ended up calling me one night (sober) to ask if I wanted to come over and have sex, which I did, so we did. It was great but I still tried not to let it show that I liked her on more than a physical level, well she came over while I was having a party and we pretty just stayed with each other, kissing and talking and whatnot, and my roomates and friends kept acting stupid and making googly comments( they know that I have feeling for her) so after she left she started txting me, heres our convo: HER: So did I pass the roomate test? ME: Yeah, they're all still talking about how cool you are. HER: So how much have you told them about me huh? ME: I just told them u were cool and whatnot, u worried I said something bad? HER: No but it sounds as thou u like me more than ur letting on. ME: Maybe...I try not to be obvious. But to be honest I do like u more than I allow myself to let on. HER: OK, may I ask why? ME: Lol because ur great, we get along so well, u like good music, u laugh at my lame jokes, theres SO much to list. And I hope I'm not saying too much. HER: No its fine, I just dont know how to reply to your stunning confession, I'm flattered. ME: I was trying not to let it be known I liked u because I figured we were just friends and I didnt want to F up our friendship. HER: I guess that all changed the night I invited you over huh? Oh well, lets not let a little thing like some really fun sex get in the way of our friendship. ME: Just a friendship? HER: No, maybe more ME: Well I have no regrets HER: Me either. Lol but I'm not sure of the status of whatever because of the casual dating thing I do, but I do like you and I ALWAYS have fun when I'm with you. ME: Well then I think the best thing to do is not to worry about it and just lets things happen the way they do. HER: I concur So I'm trying my best to keep my head together. She called me up the day before yesturday when I was home sick and asked if she could come over and we just stayed in each others arms, and we kissed alot, but this time it felt like there was more behind the kissing, it was more passionate, and she kept looking at me in "that way". But still any other time like if were talking on the phone, it just seems like shes only interested in a physical relationship, any thoughts?
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