How can someone be so damn heartless?

[Daking123]

My now ex didn't break up with me, she moved 4 states over to live with a guy she's always hooked up with in the past ( an ex from many years ago ). Sad thing is I came home to see the dressers empty, stuff missing, she up and left. Her kids ( not mine ) she left to stay with grandparents.

 

I reached out out the day i came home to see everything gone, she ignored me completely.

 

But it let me show how heart less she is: she lost her job 2 months ago she used her last check on rent, and internet bill. So for 2 months you know who stepped in and provided gas, food, help cover rent so she didn't get evicted. Me. She didn't have a dime but I stepped up and did what I could for her and her kids.

 

She had had just accepted a job offer making $18 an hour, just got back into school. Then she dips.

 

what makes it worst she blocked me on everything. I didn't do anything to deserve this. How can someone be so low, to someone who stepped up the most when you needed it? I could of walked away and her family would of been in the streets, but look what it got me. BETRAYED AND IGNORED

[Blanco]

So you were posting about an ex at the end of April, but it sounds like this is a different woman? If so, just be glad that you didn't have more invested in it.

 

Moreover, if this IS a different woman, then you need to evaluate how you keep letting yourself get so deeply invested with girlfriends so quickly. If I remember correctly, you and your one ex moved things along at a breakneck pace a couple of years ago, only to have it fall apart just as quickly.

 

If the woman mentioned in this thread is someone else, then what was she doing living with you so soon after you were posting about the other ex in April?

 

I dunno, man, if you find yourself involved with high-drama, high-conflict women again and again, it might be time to look at the common denominator.

[d0nnivain]

She might be heartless. But she wasn't unclear. She chose the other guy, despite all you did for her.

 

Be grateful for the clean break. Get angry. She treated you so badly. Use that anger to propel yourself forward away from her.

 

Don't look back.

[Been]

Because at the end of the day she's about HER and only HER. And she is never going to change.