karlym3 Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 So my story,, Just out of a relationship two guys that I work with asked me out about a wk apart(they are in the same social circle but not close) anyway I went out with both of them and kissed them both. It turns out that I am not interested in either but in another one(I promise this one I want as the first one I was just not attracted to physically-I really tried!) the second very cute but to much of a partier. So the third one who is a nice inbetween is going to be working with me tonight.(we talked a lot the other night at a party and then today at work) BUT I think he has some idea at least that I dated(and I mean two dates but yes some sexual activity took place,,).. so I wanted to ask him to hang out this weekend. DO you think he will agree to hang out? I do not want him to think I go guy to guy, that I am a player or a slut. How do I get this message across.? Not to sound conceited but I usually have a lot men ask for my number and usually can get the guy I want but men are very funny about dating within their social circle. So since I am definately going through with this tonight(asking him to hang out) any advice or opinions??
alphamale Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by karlym3 but men are very funny about dating within their social circle. maybe is he is a Rockefeller or a Kennedy but besides that most men don't give a rat's ass whether a woman comes from trailer trash or from an upper middle class background as long as she is good looking
Marshbear32 Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 If you can handle the uncomfortableness if you break up I don't see a problem. I wouldn't worry about being labeled because he will find out the real you if you date. Rumors are just that and should be tabled. Find out if you like each other before you start worrying.
noname Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 Originally posted by westernxer Don't date guys from work. i would like to co-sign this one. this thread can stop right here. you don't need anymore advice than this...
Author karlym3 Posted August 10, 2005 Author Posted August 10, 2005 So my guy was supposed to be working tonight but now is not. I can still text him on his pager.. how does this sound or anything better? Hey-I am glad that met! I have few friends who live so close to me ! If you would want to hang out-- get coffee or hang out by the pool or beach***give me a call.
Author karlym3 Posted August 10, 2005 Author Posted August 10, 2005 I will keep you posted. I just am trying not to embaress myself if he is not interested or has gf.. so that it sounds like afriendship.. but hopfully could be more? .. well we will see how it goes..
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