Girl was not ready for a relationship

[grazyexes]

So we had something going on between us few months ago, but it died because she still had feelings for her ex and eventually got back with him.

When they broke up, she started to text me again and told me that she wants me. We went on a date and we kissed and had fun together.

Few days after that she started to get cold again and I asked her what is going on. She told me that shes not ready for a relationship.

 

So what I said was that im not going to wait till she is ready and i dont want to be just her male girlfriend, but if she feels that she is ready someday, she can give me a call if im still available.

 

Should I just forget her completely?

[PegNosePete]

Yes.

 

Unless you enjoy being plan C.

[preraph]

Sounds like she just gets needy sometimes and reaches out inappropriately.

[spiderowl]

She sounds confused and obviously wants someone to care about her. I think you were right to be firm about not wanting to be a girlfriend. That shows you to be a guy who knows what he wants. Don't be harsh though. She is confused now but you never know how things might go in the future. I would leave the door open for her to get in touch if she would like to date you.

[grazyexes]

She sounds confused and obviously wants someone to care about her. I think you were right to be firm about not wanting to be a girlfriend. That shows you to be a guy who knows what he wants. Don't be harsh though. She is confused now but you never know how things might go in the future. I would leave the door open for her to get in touch if she would like to date you.

 

Yeah I think she is just afraid that she ends up alone. Seems like shes back with her ex again and that's why she was cold again and ''not ready''. Hard to believe that this girl will ever love me as much as she loves her ex. Atleast that is not going to happen as long as she is involved with him.

 

The door is open and the ball is in her court, but I need to think if it's really worth it if she comes back once again.

[mikeylo]

Yeah, she can't be alone. It's not a good idea to be another one of her fall back guys.

[thefooloftheyear]

Preserve what's left of your dignity and tell her to hit the bricks...Don't be someone's back up plan.....Never...

 

TFY

[grazyexes]

Yeah, she can't be alone. It's not a good idea to be another one of her fall back guys.

 

Isn't it like starting all over again if/when she comes back again.

If I was still letting her contact me, that would make me her slave and back up plan.

I told her that im going to keep dating women who thinks im number one, but if you change your mind about me and my position in your eyes, you can text me.