Hunterp Posted July 31, 2017 Posted July 31, 2017 I'm so sad again lately. I was doing pretty well for a while but now I'm back to depressed again. I have no idea why!! My ex of 14 months broke up with me about 5-1/2 months ago. He shocked me when he did it because I thought things were great between us. He had started another relationship with another girl while he was telling me how I'm the love of his life and his whole world. I found out about her when one of his friends posted a picture of them together the day after we broke up! They only dated for 2 months before he cheated on her. Now he's in another serious relationship with someone else. He's going away to college and I'm a year younger than him. He said he didn't want a girlfriend in college so that's why he broke up with me. The girl he's dating now is my age so he's in the same situation as he was with me. Obviously he lied to me but I don't understand how he could lie to me for over a year!! I'm still so heartbroken. It hurts knowing that he's with this new girl. He just deleted me from his life and hasn't spoken to me since we broke up. It's like I never meant anything to him at all. How can he just claim to love someone so much and then just walk away like I was nothing and start all over with someone else again and again. I know he's immature. I dated someone else for about 6 weeks and it was a disaster and he hurt me too. I'm so afraid to be hurt again. I'm afraid to trust anyone ever again!! Please help.
Maldives Posted July 31, 2017 Posted July 31, 2017 I'm so sad again lately. I was doing pretty well for a while but now I'm back to depressed again. I have no idea why!! My ex of 14 months broke up with me about 5-1/2 months ago. He shocked me when he did it because I thought things were great between us. He had started another relationship with another girl while he was telling me how I'm the love of his life and his whole world. I found out about her when one of his friends posted a picture of them together the day after we broke up! They only dated for 2 months before he cheated on her. Now he's in another serious relationship with someone else. He's going away to college and I'm a year younger than him. He said he didn't want a girlfriend in college so that's why he broke up with me. The girl he's dating now is my age so he's in the same situation as he was with me. Obviously he lied to me but I don't understand how he could lie to me for over a year!! I'm still so heartbroken. It hurts knowing that he's with this new girl. He just deleted me from his life and hasn't spoken to me since we broke up. It's like I never meant anything to him at all. How can he just claim to love someone so much and then just walk away like I was nothing and start all over with someone else again and again. I know he's immature. I dated someone else for about 6 weeks and it was a disaster and he hurt me too. I'm so afraid to be hurt again. I'm afraid to trust anyone ever again!! Please help. It's because his a narcissist if u read the dictionary meaning I'll see what I mean he fits it pretty well
stillafool Posted July 31, 2017 Posted July 31, 2017 It's because he is young and wants to experience a whole lot of girls. He isn't mature enough to be truthful with any of you so he just tells girls what he thinks they want to hear.
Author Hunterp Posted July 31, 2017 Author Posted July 31, 2017 Thank you for replying. How can someone lie like that and not feel bad?! I can't imagine lying and knowingly hurting someone. It seems so real. I just can't wrap my head around it
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