Bantosm Posted July 31, 2017 Posted July 31, 2017 I found out from mutual friends that the girl I'm interested in wants to date a particular guy. I haven't flirted with her much so you know how it is. I just wondered maybe she would want to date two different guys or more if I should leave it alone? If there is a chance what can I do?
d0nnivain Posted July 31, 2017 Posted July 31, 2017 If she has no idea that you are interested in her because you have never expressed interest, now that she wants to date another guy is the worst time for you to pop out of the wood work.
Pocketstar Posted July 31, 2017 Posted July 31, 2017 Honestly, you have very little chances right now. If her mind is already occupied by that guy, then you are fighting a steep uphill battle to begin with. And even if she got heart broken and just pick you up on a bounce back. Honestly, do you want to be with her despite that?
Author Bantosm Posted July 31, 2017 Author Posted July 31, 2017 If she has no idea that you are interested in her because you have never expressed interest, now that she wants to date another guy is the worst time for you to pop out of the wood work. Now is not the best time to approach her but I disagree that's it's the worst. I think that time would come once she's in an established relationship with that guy which may or may not ever happen. If I had shown ample interest in her and she was still wanted to date that guy then it would be game over and that is why I still think I have a chance.
d0nnivain Posted July 31, 2017 Posted July 31, 2017 You seem to have made up your mind. Ask her out. Do not make some sort of announcement. Out of the blue declarations are creepy from the perspective of the person who hears them. If she picks you great. If she picks him, now out gracefully & completely
Mysterio Posted July 31, 2017 Posted July 31, 2017 I would just ask her out for the practice and let the chips land where they land. I would not build her up in your mind as the be all to end all of a woman.
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