The Jamaican Love Connection

[Williamjacob]

It's been a year since I've been talking too this 40 year old woman who has never married. She has one kid now at age 16. She works 7/7 that's the issue. She's in a metal musical band in the island. I was suppose to go see her in Miami, but I was with someone else I couldn't change plans. Her story was that she had child with married man in her 20's. That man still married but takes care of his 16 year old daughter she had with him. I met her off the dating site she was looking for relationship like most I only have spoken to 2 different woman from that island and they all have some story and one child from a married man.

 

The older lady works 7/7 too runs salon has daughter 26 and she's in 50s. Both woman share a lot but I had asked them why go after a married man. They said it just happen that way. Same thing the 50 year never married either. Both women are very attractive looking. I have land and house on that island. I need to tend to it but I haven't got the time to do so. 40 year old I do like her but she told me this after 1 year.

 

She said all she wanted was to be friends because she done with men. Prior to that she was interested. I never knew what trigger her issue. I was so dead set to go too the island in September 2017. What she said changed my plans for now. Then she felt sorry and told me she would travel and stay with me for 3 weeks. She contacts me every 3 days to say hi and such. Right now I guess I have to consider her a friend. I tell her she looks beautiful she said she looks ugly. Why she said that is a mystery to me.

 

The other woman would jump at the chance to be with me last year I met her from the same dating site about a year ago too. She was in Maryland visiting her GF. I had spoken to her on the phone the entire trip. Everything was working just find. Then something happen. Now she's on FB like the other one too. These two women work so hard and don't have time for no social life. When they text me or text live or voice or video chat is very short.

 

They're happy to see me an etc.. I am in Florida the island like 1 hr trip by plane. I will if they can take off. The 40 year old suppose to come in Sept. She was suppose to come in Aug 7th to 21st. But that time si very busy for her band crew. 50 year old can't leave has she is now a grandma her 26 year old daughter gave birth to a baby boy. She and the BF live with the 50 year old mom now. So things changed with her after a year. I do get along with both women. Both are interested in me, so I guess what's the best course of action to with these two?

[William]

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