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Hi, recently i met a girl and was speaking to her alot, and we got along very very well and everything was going well. We became a thing and we kissed etc. She ended things recently and said it was because she had alot of stuff going on at home, because her grandad fell and she was going through alot. More recently i discovered that she really ended things because one of her closest friends confessed his love to her. She now cant decide between the two of us and is having a hard time with the choice. Just wanted to know what i should do in this situation, because i have very very strong feelings for her.

Just wanted some advice.

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Make the choice easier for her and start dating other women.

 

You have to have really low self-esteem to wait around for a woman to make up her mind about you. That's absurd. I would leave a cloud of dust in front of her because I would be gone so fast. Let me tell you.

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Your feelings for her are not the issue. Her feelings for you control. She already left you once to go to him. If she isn't wholeheartedly back by now saying it was a huge mistake, you are second choice at best. Who wants that?

 

Go find a girl who likes you as much as you like her & as much as she likes him. Sorry.

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Hi, recently i met a girl and was speaking to her alot, and we got along very very well and everything was going well. We became a thing and we kissed etc. She ended things recently and said it was because she had alot of stuff going on at home, because her grandad fell and she was going through alot. More recently i discovered that she really ended things because one of her closest friends confessed his love to her. She now cant decide between the two of us and is having a hard time with the choice. Just wanted to know what i should do in this situation, because i have very very strong feelings for her.

Just wanted some advice.

 

 

I know you need a friend

Someone you can talk to

Who will understand what you're going through

When it comes to love

There's no easy answer

Only you can say what you're gonna do

I heard you on the phone

You took his number

Said you weren't alone, but you'd call him soon

Isn't he the guy

The guy who left you crying

Isn't he the one who made you blue

When you remember those nights in his arms

You know you've gotta make up your mind

Are you gonna stay with the one who loves you

Or are you going back to the one you love

Someone's gonna cry when they learn they've lost you

Someone's gonna thank the stars above

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