girlfriend up and left me and her kids for a guy she's been on and off with for 10 ye

[Daking123]

So I went to my girlfriend house today and come in and see all her dresser are empty, I hit up her cousin to ask have she seen her, and cousin says "she went to FL for the low life bastard everybody tells her to leave alone 8 hours away". Her cousin says she's been running behind this guy for 10 years, all he does is give her empty promises, and her cousin says "he didn't even contact her til he seen how happy she was with you".

 

she did fall into a rough patch lost her job, now pretty much going to get evicted out her house, lose her car, etc. but I really seen no signs of her leaving. Then her cousin say she left her kids behind (8 hours) to go after this man (kids are with the BD and his mom). I wish I would of knew this was going to happen or I would of left.

 

this guy probably promised her everything since she has nothing right now, no money, phones off, no food etc. but I don't get the part she just had a great job offer, and she just registered to go back to school but randomly ups and leave. Even though she was struggling I was doing my best to help her out til she got a job and got caught up.

 

im not bitter just disappointed. But at the end I'll let Karma do her job

[Daking123]

So yesterday after not hearing from my gf all day, to my suprise she up and left and moved to Florida to be with "the guy she's been in love with for 10 years on and off aka the guy that treats her like **** aka the guy that only comes around when she happy aka the one her family told her to leave alone " she doesn't know I know I found out thru her cousin. It took my storm because she had just accepted a new job, just register to go back to school, and was looking at a new home. Then all of sudden she ups and leave, leave her kids in the state while she goes 10 hours away.

 

I messaged her once and got no reply. She hasn't taken me out her relationship status on social media, so I'm a little confused.

 

She has been in a rough spot the past two months getting behind on bills, no job, left state with no money, no phone.

 

Her cousin showed me messages where she was saying "she didn't come down there for a relationship". But idk She just left me in the dark. She was very weary of a court date that was coming up in Florida on the 3rd. With her not having a job, no money, I think she panicky and up left. Idk it's a mess

[d0nnivain]

There's nothing for you to do. She made her bad decision all by herself. Bad decision or not, it was still hers to make.

 

If they are your kids too -- the ones she abandoned -- get them some therapy.

 

Otherwise just make sure she didn't steal any of your stuff, clean up after her & get on with your life. Sounds like you dodged a bullet.