She Didn't Mention Boyfriend :-/

[anthonywatts]

Being highly attractive in your looks has a lot of initial advantage, especially online, in that you get lots of initial attention. But I doubt a highly good looking guy has any advantage over a decent looking or even just an average looking guy in terms of finding a more meaningful relationship. I won't say that I'll stay away from a super good looking guys (because 2 of my 3 boyfriends are very good looking, in my eyes anyway ; they don't really care much about their looks though), but I'll definitely stay away from someone who has a hangup about his looks.

 

This is wishful thinking and generally false. I have numerous good friends and even more acquaintances who are good guys: very successful in business, high integrity, loyal to a fault, positive, generous, etc. They are amazingly loving to their wives and girlfriends.

 

Yet, a significant number of them are treated like, well a four letter word I won't use here. :-)

 

And it is sad to see. Their wives and girlfriends will insult them to their face, start arguments without the slightest provocation and cheat on them behind their back.

 

Why? They are either physically unattractive and/or socially awkward. They are good financial providers but there is no sexual spark.

 

Example 2: I've seen relationships sour as good looking guys get lazy and let themselves go. Their wives and girlfriends either leave them, cheat, or treat them like, yes, that aforementioned not mentioned four letter word, lol.

 

If you are good looking and REMAIN good looking in a relationship, the woman will remain emotionally invested, kind, supportive, ie "loving" long term. She will work harder to keep the relationship going, intact, and to keep the sparks flying so to speak.