Aquam Posted July 26, 2017 Posted July 26, 2017 I was seeing a girl and it was going good. We had really fun times together. But the last date was a bit awkward and not very romantic. We have both been busy and I messaged her to see if she wanted to do something again. But she said she's not sure there's any natural chemistry. I know I've been holding back so I haven't really showed her I care and we havent really talked about our feelings. What can I say to try and get her to see me again so I can prove that I like her and that it could work? Thanks guys
d0nnivain Posted July 26, 2017 Posted July 26, 2017 It's not about you proving that you like her. It's about her being turned on by you & being sexually attracted to you. "No chemistry" means you don't get her juices running. There is nothing you can do to change that; it's not about having deeper feelings or showing her you care. Sorry. 8
Bastile Posted July 26, 2017 Posted July 26, 2017 Likely chalk it up as an L, and see the funny side. Apply whatever you learnt here for the next one. 3
Imajerk17 Posted July 26, 2017 Posted July 26, 2017 (edited) I was seeing a girl and it was going good. We had really fun times together. But the last date was a bit awkward and not very romantic. We have both been busy and I messaged her to see if she wanted to do something again. But she said she's not sure there's any natural chemistry. I know I've been holding back so I haven't really showed her I care and we havent really talked about our feelings. What can I say to try and get her to see me again so I can prove that I like her and that it could work? Thanks guys Have you made a move physically though? (When someone says they have been seeing someone that usually implies at least a few dates--enough time to see how well you connect holding hands, kissing, making out, even intimacy) I pretty much agree with donnivain. This one is done for, I brought up the above to give you some things to consider for next time. Edited July 26, 2017 by Imajerk17 1
Author Aquam Posted July 27, 2017 Author Posted July 27, 2017 Yeah, we had slept together. We maybe seen each other about 7 times. The thing is, she was into me. She was the one wanting things to get more serious. I think this is why i started to hold back. All our dates were good apart from the last 1, it was just weird. Now I think it has put her off completely.
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