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In an ideal world. What would you see your dream love life situation if you could have it all work out for. Go anyway you want to with it.

 

For me. It would be a woman close to my age. So late 30 early 40's. She has no Kids. We both listen to the same types of music and turn each other on to bands that we may not be aware of. We both go to music shows/Movies/Workouts/Yoga/Bike rides/Walks.

 

We have the same morals. Our humour is similar, so we are not always serrious around each other and if we do fight its more comical than anything.

 

How we get together is that she makes the effort with me or its Mutual.

Her looks are more Girl Next Door. She is warm sweet, sharp, adorable and loves physical affection from me and giving that to me as well. Think Betty from the Archie comics.

 

Race. I am a Black man, but I am open to any race. Most of my GF and women I date, tend to be white, thats just because there are more White Women in m social environment.

 

We both work. Although I am not so gung ho about having a child. If she wants at least one. I would be willing to compromise.

 

No alergy to pets as well. Is a Pet Lover

 

Physical looks is subjective. I am all about face more than anything. Thats my focal point for the most part.

 

We are also able to work out any rough patches in a amicable way and not have big heavy duty fights about things. Save our Money and Travel when time permits.

 

We only have one go around in this life. Why not have it close to how you want when it comes to your love life,job,family,friends.

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In an ideal world. What would you see your dream love life situation if you could have it all work out for. Go anyway you want to with it.

 

For me. It would be a woman close to my age. So late 30 early 40's. She has no Kids. We both listen to the same types of music and turn each other on to bands that we may not be aware of. We both go to music shows/Movies/Workouts/Yoga/Bike rides/Walks.

 

We have the same morals. Our humour is similar, so we are not always serrious around each other and if we do fight its more comical than anything.

 

How we get together is that she makes the effort with me or its Mutual.

Her looks are more Girl Next Door. She is warm sweet, sharp, adorable and loves physical affection from me and giving that to me as well. Think Betty from the Archie comics.

 

Race. I am a Black man, but I am open to any race. Most of my GF and women I date, tend to be white, thats just because there are more White Women in m social environment.

 

We both work. Although I am not so gung ho about having a child. If she wants at least one. I would be willing to compromise.

 

No alergy to pets as well. Is a Pet Lover

 

Physical looks is subjective. I am all about face more than anything. Thats my focal point for the most part.

 

We are also able to work out any rough patches in a amicable way and not have big heavy duty fights about things. Save our Money and Travel when time permits.

 

We only have one go around in this life. Why not have it close to how you want when it comes to your love life,job,family,friends.

 

Well.

 

It would be a woman who is into all of the dumb sh@t I'm into, plus she's super hot and she has enormous natural boobs and can drink her @ss off without saying mean or stupid sh@t. Oh and she doesn't care that I watch porn...

 

I think that about covers it. :p

 

Seriously though. Reality is far away from ideals. Most women don't even give a sh@t about common interests or activities. I'm passionate about music and I play an instrument, so I messaged mostly every musician on Match.com, professional or amateur, or if they said they were passionate about the same type of music I was into no matter what they looked like.

 

Not even a response by a single one. Sometimes you just gotta go with the path life clears for you.

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I love your threads, mysterio!

 

My dream love life situation is where we enjoy our time at home - reading, watching movies, building Legos, whatever - but also like to get out and do things - live music, dive bars, social events. Pretty evenly. He enjoys travel and has wanderlust but he's not restless. He respects my time alone and vice versa. We would throw small parties with our family & friends. He is close with his family and has lots of friends

 

We have similar core values. We have some of the same hobbies and interests which we participate in together, but many that we don't share in common. We admire each other's differences and it keeps things interesting.

 

Kids or no kids, doesn't matter but we would need a pet(s)

 

Ideally, he would appreciate both art and science. We can have long, deep conversations. He is confident and independent, but humble and open. He is loyal, caring, very affectionate, and open with his feelings.

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For me , it was now ex gf , but she also had some problems sooooo, well we won't go there.

 

But , for where l am in life now , that was the most perfect combo l could ever dream up.

And strangely it was a very similar thing with ex w too,well sorta strangely.

But , we were just intensely into each other, l effg love that sh@t , just naturally into each other and intensely attracted also,the perfect combo.

You can't create it buy it fake it , it just is.

But although we weren't 100% alike or with things in common , more like 60/40 ish , it was the big things , the rest just made it even more interesting, understatement,

We both loved our own world , own little cocoon,our bubble , and that was each our most fav place and way of living in the universe. But there was so much more.

lf l could order a new love, it would be exactly all we had.

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