J dub Posted August 8, 2005 Posted August 8, 2005 For anyone who remembers my thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t67197/ about this new guy I was dating and how he was giving me all kinds of weird vibes/signals/etc, I wanted to give you an update because I am just...wow. The vacation that he was going on for a week? Yeah, he went. and got MARRIED while he was there. Yep -- how do you like them apples? He even called my work phone to tell me about it (I already knew it only took a matter of minutes to get to me @ work) and he said, he has wanted this for four years and he had been off and on with her, this was just a roll of the dice for him. SICK. I told him he is deranged for even trying to talk to me during and moreso AFTER everything that went on. I am so disgusted, although I'm sure in a month this is going to be hilarious. Oh yeah, and my friend tells me he was bragging to another dude, pointing to his ring and said "It was my best kept secret".
Cecelius Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 He's an odd duck, I give him that. I wonder if he was completely unattached two weeks ago with her and went straight to marriage, or was he informally assocaited with her? Wonder what she would think of his time with you... Anyway, luckily you were cooler than he was so it kind of washes of your back.
AndrewJ Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 thats so sad jdub. cheer up plenty more fish in the sea
francis Posted August 9, 2005 Posted August 9, 2005 i just read your entire last post for the full story, i am in disbelief! oh my god... I hope you're doing ok dub, naive old me cannot believe someone could carry this off...some people have no shame... i'm so sorry that you wasted your time on this pathetic man...and i also feel sorry for the poor girl he married to be stuck to a loser like that now. i guess this should be a lesson to us all to be wary at the beginning of any relationshipness.
Author J dub Posted August 10, 2005 Author Posted August 10, 2005 I wonder if he was completely unattached two weeks ago with her and went straight to marriage, or was he informally assocaited with her? Wonder what she would think of his time with you... I think he was single when we first started talking, but they somehow reconciled in the time between then and when they went on vacation. I dont know when or how or why though. It's sick really, esp because I have to see him everyday at work. I saw him yesterday and he tried to come say hi to me and I totally blew him off, didnt even say a word to him, just turned the other way. I dont think he liked it much because soon after he slammed his office door. It was weird seeing him tho, that was the first time since our date, and it is SO HARD to believe this is the same guy who was all cute and funny and threw me in the grass to kiss me and said cute things to me. Its amazing, just completely amazing that people do this type of stuff. What did he expect though, you know? For me to be all, "OH MY GOSH CONGRATULATIONS!" ? HAA yeah right I dont even want to be friends with him, he just made me feel so...used.
Cecelius Posted August 10, 2005 Posted August 10, 2005 He's a freak, frankly. He may in the back of his mind have gotten married to wow you.
Author J dub Posted August 10, 2005 Author Posted August 10, 2005 Originally posted by Cecelius He's a freak, frankly. He may in the back of his mind have gotten married to wow you. How sick and twisted -- and possibly correct, that is.
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