Rabbitman Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 So last week I won't lie I caught myself looking over at her at work a few times and I think she caught me. I started noticing almost anytime I looked in her direction she was looking at me. Friday last week she was talking to some guy, and did a complete 90 and we met eyes. I got up to throw stuff in the trash and I could see her looking in my direction many times. We even caught eyes once or twice, but I tried not to look anymore. As I'm walking out of the cafeteria, we both glanced at each other from far, and as we get closer she's coming around a pillar and we are both looking each other in the eyes. Today I kept eating at myself for not talking to her. I tried not to really look at her too much, but we did make eye contact a few times. She was working, and I had to move stuff like 15 feet behind her and I notice she did a 180 and looked at my real quick. I also notice if I stand next to her she turns her head in my direction. I don't know maybe I am overthinking. I'd consider myself average looking, but she seems super pretty. Link to post Share on other sites
GunslingerRoland Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 Hold on, a little more background needed here, you work with her then? Do you know her? I can't imagine going up to someone I didn't know at work and hitting on them... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Rabbitman Posted July 24, 2017 Author Share Posted July 24, 2017 Hold on, a little more background needed here, you work with her then? Do you know her? I can't imagine going up to someone I didn't know at work and hitting on them... She just started working at my job last week. I don't know her at all. Link to post Share on other sites
girlinNYC Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 So last week I won't lie I caught myself looking over at her at work a few times and I think she caught me. I started noticing almost anytime I looked in her direction she was looking at me. Friday last week she was talking to some guy, and did a complete 90 and we met eyes. I got up to throw stuff in the trash and I could see her looking in my direction many times. We even caught eyes once or twice, but I tried not to look anymore. As I'm walking out of the cafeteria, we both glanced at each other from far, and as we get closer she's coming around a pillar and we are both looking each other in the eyes. Today I kept eating at myself for not talking to her. I tried not to really look at her too much, but we did make eye contact a few times. She was working, and I had to move stuff like 15 feet behind her and I notice she did a 180 and looked at my real quick. I also notice if I stand next to her she turns her head in my direction. I don't know maybe I am overthinking. I'd consider myself average looking, but she seems super pretty. Eye contact is a basic indicator of interest. If she's constantly looking your way she's obviously curious about you. The only way you can gauge what she's currently thinking is if you have a few conversations with her. You'll be able to read the situation better going off some concrete evidence. Start by saying hi. Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 We can't tell you what her glances mean. I can't help looking at a women who goes to my gym - it's because she reminds me so much of my sister. Go and talk to her. As she's new, it would be kind to introduce yourself anyway. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Spider Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 I look at guys I have 0 interest in all the time. Give them a nice long look. They're there and I can. Come at me bro 2 Link to post Share on other sites
SammySammy Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 If it is interest, she won't be interested much longer if you don't take action. If it's not interest, you won't have lost anything after finding out. Can't lose what you never had. Take action. Talk to her. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 humans tend to look at things they like and not look at things they don't like. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 She was probably telling the other guy "What's the deal with that guy? He keeps staring at me." If she was interested, she'd be smiling and talking to you, I think. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 If she was interested, she'd be smiling and talking to you, I think. chicks use their eyes to signal interest, the smile comes after Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Spider Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 She was probably telling the other guy "What's the deal with that guy? He keeps staring at me." If she was interested, she'd be smiling and talking to you, I think. haha my mom used to say that to me when I would tell her when some creeper was staring at me "how do you know theyre staring if you aren't staring at them? they probably feel the same way" xD Link to post Share on other sites
coolheadal Posted July 24, 2017 Share Posted July 24, 2017 So last week I won't lie I caught myself looking over at her at work a few times and I think she caught me. I started noticing almost anytime I looked in her direction she was looking at me. Friday last week she was talking to some guy, and did a complete 90 and we met eyes. I got up to throw stuff in the trash and I could see her looking in my direction many times. We even caught eyes once or twice, but I tried not to look anymore. As I'm walking out of the cafeteria, we both glanced at each other from far, and as we get closer she's coming around a pillar and we are both looking each other in the eyes. Today I kept eating at myself for not talking to her. I tried not to really look at her too much, but we did make eye contact a few times. She was working, and I had to move stuff like 15 feet behind her and I notice she did a 180 and looked at my real quick. I also notice if I stand next to her she turns her head in my direction. I don't know maybe I am overthinking. I'd consider myself average looking, but she seems super pretty. Next time try to run into her and say HI, you name and see if you interested directly. Ask her if she's free on Friday go hit Chinese and movie. Link to post Share on other sites
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