bebegal Posted August 8, 2005 Posted August 8, 2005 I went on a date with a guy from work--two times realiazed I was not interested. I had not yet told him(the last date was ona thurs) and on friday this other guy from work called me and invited me to come out and party. I had plans but told him that I could come out sat night( I had not told the other guy I was uninterested yet) So they just met about a month ago and kind of hang out in the same crowd(they work in the same dept). Anyway I was going to meet him and I said can you please not invite out (the first guy) and left it at that. So we are hanging out(this guy is so hot) anyway and then the first guy calls him to see what everyone was doing(the whole dept was going out) but he did not pick and then asked me why I did not want him to be invited b/c he does hang out with him sometimes. So I told him honestly that I went out with him two times and was just not interested but I had not yet told him my feelings yet. So the hot guy was quiet and then was like you know he is my friend and I really can not do that to him. I totally understood and was like ok. I wound up going out with him and the whole dept anyway(I work with them all and they are so much fun) Well somehow of course someone talks to the first guy and he gets invited. So hot guy barely talks to me at all..except to say ....again--I can not do this to him but I think things will pass with him and I will be here for a while and you will be here for a while.. and left it at that. We rode together so at the end of the night I went back with him (the first guy was kind of hanging on me all night but i was kind of cool with him) and drove home with hot guy and his friend. Well.. he hugged me goodbye and it turned into a kiss on the cheek(my cheek) and then the real thing.. then he was like I am off such and such day and we both work night shift tom and so page me when you are free.. SO.. I never paged him. I feel that he is undecided and I should leave him alone until he knows. I almost feel that paging him would make things worse.. that if he is undecided--I should leave him alone and let him figure it out and if he calls then I know its ok.if he really wants me he will call right? My friend told me just now that he saw him walking around in my dept when there is no reason to(he works on another dept) but he did not stop into my room. WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT THIS CRAZY SITUATION? do you think he will call.. is he interested?
Author bebegal Posted August 9, 2005 Author Posted August 9, 2005 so.. he never called tonight. If he does not call by tom night then I guess he just wants to be friends?
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