Funny bunny Posted July 20, 2017 Posted July 20, 2017 Okay so I went on a really great date yesterday but I'm not going to expect much and just take it slow. The chemistry was there, very handsome guy, great job. It felt just right. Bad news looked him up on Facebook and I thought wow this guy is too good to be true or what? Other bad news. Accidentally saw that the ex changed his profile pic to a great looking one and immediately felt a pang on my best. I didn't mean to see that at all and I felt I broke NC a bit. Anyhow it teaches me not to log on fb anymore until I don't give a damn about him. Right away I thought he is trying to get a new girl with such A great looking picture. Ughh I was doing so good too! > Feeling like shut all of a sudden 1
Amas5750 Posted July 20, 2017 Posted July 20, 2017 Youve done SO well to just go on a great date. Sounds like it was a really nice time. Do whats best for u and AVOID your exes pics. Avoid avoid avoid 1
MarvelFan1 Posted July 20, 2017 Posted July 20, 2017 If you have the strength to, block your ex on FB and that way you won't see anything of his by accident, whether by accident, a friend liking something of his and it appearing in your feed, or maybe if you have a moment of weakness, looking yourself. You had a great time with a guy who you seem to have hit it off with, and you totally deserve to meet someone like him, maybe what seems to good to be true is just the realization that's how a normal guy should be. Enjoy your time in the present and think about how great this new man is and how good you feel. Live in the present and not the past. Don't pick the scab.
vickyp Posted July 20, 2017 Posted July 20, 2017 Okay so I went on a really great date yesterday but I'm not going to expect much and just take it slow. The chemistry was there, very handsome guy, great job. It felt just right. Bad news looked him up on Facebook and I thought wow this guy is too good to be true or what? Other bad news. Accidentally saw that the ex changed his profile pic to a great looking one and immediately felt a pang on my best. I didn't mean to see that at all and I felt I broke NC a bit. Anyhow it teaches me not to log on fb anymore until I don't give a damn about him. Right away I thought he is trying to get a new girl with such A great looking picture. Ughh I was doing so good too! > Feeling like shut all of a sudden Why haven't you blocked your ex on FB ? That is not NC. NC is blocking and deleting everything ! If you met this "great guy" then seeing pics of your ex shouldn't bother you. Is it possible this "new guy" is a rebound?
Author Funny bunny Posted July 26, 2017 Author Posted July 26, 2017 ive thought about blocking him but I felt like hey we are adults and I don't really need to do that.. All I gotta do is not look at all. I'm just staying off social media altogether. He deleted me on fb anyway. Ummm he might be a rebound but I don't think the guy is very very interested in me. Just going out on a date here and there. The ex is not coming back and I know that. I am genuinely interested in this new guy and I'm going to move on from the ex.
preraph Posted July 26, 2017 Posted July 26, 2017 Nothing good can come of you following your ex's social media. Always remember that social media is mostly people trying to make themselves look better than they really are. Just stop looking and block him too.
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