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elaine567 Established Member

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I think some women(not saying it's true with the OP). use sex as a bonding tool...In some cases its not so much raging libido, but rather it's feeding some deep insecurity ...

 

That was my first thought too.

Nowhere does the OP say the sex is fantastic or enjoyable.

She feels she is obsessed and addicted.

It may be a need for validation that is driving this, a need to feel wanted, almost a desperation and a need to perform sexually to keep her man interested and on board.

 

That may be what her man is picking up on, it just doesn't feel like real love or desire to him, more like she is on some mission to pack as much sex into her life as possible and he thus feels "used".

 

I note you came out of an abusive relationship only 3 years ago. I guess that may be something to do with this. Did you ever get counselling?

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Joga_31 Established Member

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This may belong in sexual practices, if so, please transfer. I am engaged to a wonderful guy who treats me with respect whom I love very much. I am also extremely attracted to him. We have been together for about a year and are getting married in March. I an in my ealy 40s if that makes a difference and he is in his middle 40s.

 

 

My problem, which my not be a problem at all.... I am addicted to him sexually. It is like I cannot get enough of him. He is starting to voice concerns that he thinks I am with him only for the sex which is absolutely not true. I love him very much and if we could never have sex again I would still be with him but... I have this consistent urge to have sex, make love, whatever I can get from him on a daily basis. It is like it is never enough.

 

 

I have never had such a strong urge for sex before with anyone else. Am I wrong to feel this way?

 

I love it, I say enjoy it while this feeling still alive. Do compliment him on other things as well and also notice the other sides of him, but do continue this thing. I think it also may have to do with the honeymoon/infatuation phase.

 

Good for you for having this emotion. Enjoy :cool:

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