Yungstagurl Posted July 18, 2017 Posted July 18, 2017 When a man is touching/rubbing a woman's arms, her hands or back and kissing her forehead or hair what does it mean versus a man grabbing her butt or touching her thighs sides or legs? is it supposed to be more romantic or sensual? Passion? Just curious.
basil67 Posted July 18, 2017 Posted July 18, 2017 What's the context of these touches? The guy who's doing the touching, who is he to you? Is there a reason that you're unsure of his intentions? 1
Author Yungstagurl Posted July 18, 2017 Author Posted July 18, 2017 What's the context of these touches? The guy who's doing the touching, who is he to you? Is there a reason that you're unsure of his intentions? He's just a friend. Tried the dating thing long time ago but it didn't work. We he comes around he usually is touchy.
meta.morphate Posted July 18, 2017 Posted July 18, 2017 He probably doesn't want to seem like a pig or overly aggressive, if you've tried dating in the past and it didn't work out, but I think that the ultimate goal is the same ...
act00 Posted July 18, 2017 Posted July 18, 2017 An arm is not 100% sexual. Grabbing a butt, is, and crass on a date or in public. The back is a safe zone too, as a man guides her through a door or a crowd. Touching thighs and butt invades personal space. Thighs is a bit too close to the good parts. Touching is a good indicator of interest, and for someone who really likes affection, I have no issues with it, but not butt grabbing or touching, and thighs as well unless it's kind of a thigh tap as we're sitting next to each other talking. Knees can be a bit personal or not. There are people here at LS that feel any form of touch is bad on a first date, and even holding hands is too personal too soon, and see this intimacy as a higher value than a kiss. So there really is no way to know what is acceptable and what isn't, as far as personal boundaries and comfort zones go, but hopefully there will be a clue or reciprocation on what is okay or not. There are certain body parts that are more sexual/sensual. Unless you're in a relationship where there is some making out or sex, really not appropriate; like a first date, if he touches your arm, holds hands, puts his hand on the small of your back when maneuvering through a door or crowd, or taps your thigh, not fondles, in conversation, I consider these okay. If I got a kiss on the forehead and not on the lips at the end of a date, I would be concerned there's no interest. First dates, new dates is mostly what I've focused on, but as dating progresses and intimacy progresses, other forms of touching become more acceptable.
CptInsano Posted July 18, 2017 Posted July 18, 2017 He's just a friend. Tried the dating thing long time ago but it didn't work. We he comes around he usually is touchy. I think he may look for some type of affection but nothing more, to be honest. Especially the kiss on the forehead is something that just doesn't fit that well in a romantic relationship.
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